Comments on: 6 Steps to Deflate Self-Defeating Fears http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/ Creativity, Clarity & Happiness Tue, 15 May 2012 16:11:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: teresa http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-145846 teresa Tue, 03 Apr 2012 21:39:57 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-145846 ariticle sounds great but putting it into action is only possible with the assistance of a higher power. I lost my house through malice of two family members who wanted me to remain at home wth my elderly mother. I had severe breakdown suicidal depression,I am still struggling with caring for a difficult mother I have prayed constantly for help to obtain support and a place to escape to as a bolthole. but no answers. I cannot stop hatred for those who beetrayed me but struggle to overcome it through prayer. ariticle sounds great but putting it into action is only possible with the assistance of a higher power. I lost my house through malice of two family members who wanted me to remain at home wth my elderly mother. I had severe breakdown suicidal depression,I am still struggling with caring for a difficult mother I have prayed constantly for help to obtain support and a place to escape to as a bolthole. but no answers. I cannot stop hatred for those who beetrayed me but struggle to overcome it through prayer.

]]> By: Mr D http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-129467 Mr D Sun, 11 Sep 2011 11:49:14 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-129467 I found this article after googling "how to beat self defeating thoughts". After reading it i felt less alone and It probably allowed me to condense the things i already knew after having read so many self help / mindfullness books into a short actionable list. Thank you. I m a web entrepreneur and despite my efforts it seems my business is stagnating. I typically read the bios and about us of my competitors and partners with very anxious thought patterns. Thinking they all have higher education and connections. They know the right things to do and the right people to call. Whereas i m breaking my back for no encouraging results they all seem to progress effortlessly and arrogantly. I have not been much to school, learned quite all i know by myself and I hate these people for the Talking to partners i cannot help feeling like a peasant in front of a lord. I feel like i don't fit in, don't have the body langage nor the words nor the self assurance they boast. Yet i know every one of the previous assertions are false, i m still telling all this to myself unconsciouly. Well more and more consciously apparently. Isn't that a good sign ? I m starting to get through this ! I found this article after googling “how to beat self defeating thoughts”.
After reading it i felt less alone and It probably allowed me to condense the things i already knew after having read so many self help / mindfullness books into a short actionable list. Thank you.

I m a web entrepreneur and despite my efforts it seems my business is stagnating.
I typically read the bios and about us of my competitors and partners with very anxious thought patterns.
Thinking they all have higher education and connections.
They know the right things to do and the right people to call.
Whereas i m breaking my back for no encouraging results they all seem to progress effortlessly and arrogantly.
I have not been much to school, learned quite all i know by myself and I hate these people for the
Talking to partners i cannot help feeling like a peasant in front of a lord. I feel like i don’t fit in, don’t have the body langage nor the words nor the self assurance they boast.

Yet i know every one of the previous assertions are false, i m still telling all this to myself unconsciouly. Well more and more consciously apparently. Isn’t that a good sign ?
I m starting to get through this !

]]> By: Mav http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-121649 Mav Fri, 25 Feb 2011 05:03:56 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-121649 I needed to read this you captured exactly what plagues me and so many others I know. This article is exactly the difference in Success and Failure in life. You choose the outcome when its all said and done, only thing you don't control is when you're gonna leave! I needed to read this you captured exactly what plagues me and so many others I know. This article is exactly the difference in Success and Failure in life. You choose the outcome when its all said and done, only thing you don’t control is when you’re gonna leave!

]]> By: prestito inpdap http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-120658 prestito inpdap Tue, 01 Feb 2011 01:56:13 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-120658 Well, the article is in reality the top-quality on this exemplary subject. I accord with your decisions and will thirstily look forward to your future updates. Just saying thanks will not just be enough, for the wonderful lucidity in your writing. I will instantly grab your rss feed to check informed of any updates. Incredible work and much success in your business dealings! Well, the article is in reality the top-quality on this exemplary subject. I accord with your decisions and will thirstily look forward to your future updates. Just saying thanks will not just be enough, for the wonderful lucidity in your writing. I will instantly grab your rss feed to check informed of any updates. Incredible work and much success in your business dealings!

]]> By: Ressie Hennig http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-119323 Ressie Hennig Wed, 05 Jan 2011 21:10:31 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-119323 we should just be greatful for our family we should just be greatful for our family

]]> By: Lana http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-53356 Lana Fri, 07 Aug 2009 08:20:43 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-53356 Wow your to stuff is powerful. In the middle of reading it, I realized that I was unconsciensely comparing your skills at understanding human minds and fears with mine. I was thinking of how much of a better person you were at knowing and understanding people and how well you can help people realize and grow. It made me stop and go wow. I do it all the time. I had to stop thinking that people are better than me, and think of how we are all equal and all have different skills and abilities that make us great and that even if someone is better, or appears so, in a certain area, we shouldn't automatically think that we fail compared to them, that we all have our areas in which we excel and we have nothing to fear expect or own self judgement. Thank you. Wow your to stuff is powerful. In the middle of reading it, I realized that I was unconsciensely comparing your skills at understanding human minds and fears with mine. I was thinking of how much of a better person you were at knowing and understanding people and how well you can help people realize and grow. It made me stop and go wow. I do it all the time. I had to stop thinking that people are better than me, and think of how we are all equal and all have different skills and abilities that make us great and that even if someone is better, or appears so, in a certain area, we shouldn’t automatically think that we fail compared to them, that we all have our areas in which we excel and we have nothing to fear expect or own self judgement. Thank you.

]]> By: Frank Brown http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-39018 Frank Brown Wed, 11 Mar 2009 16:12:09 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-39018 I think the advice within step 3 has helped me the most. Specifically regarding changing my physiology. I have started running after work everyday, and I can say my thought process has been more positive. I think its because it lets your clear your mind for a while and focus on the exercise at hand. -- Frank B. <a HREF="http://car-accident.avvo.com/" rel="nofollow">Car accident lawyer</a> I think the advice within step 3 has helped me the most. Specifically regarding changing my physiology. I have started running after work everyday, and I can say my thought process has been more positive. I think its because it lets your clear your mind for a while and focus on the exercise at hand.

–
Frank B.
Car accident lawyer

]]> By: Gina http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-37893 Gina Wed, 18 Feb 2009 19:26:22 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-37893 WONDERFUL! THANKS A LOT! WONDERFUL! THANKS A LOT!

]]> By: Wakas Mir http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-29440 Wakas Mir Sun, 14 Sep 2008 07:31:33 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-29440 Very nice tina... this post really was helpful and informative :) Very nice tina… this post really was helpful and informative :)

]]> By: Reflexology london http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/comment-page-2/#comment-23630 Reflexology london Sun, 03 Aug 2008 17:57:37 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/clarity/6-steps-to-deflate-self-defeating-fears/#comment-23630 I enjoyed this post. Listening to yourself is very important but so difficult... Even if you're making efforts then it fades away. Gotta keep trying. I enjoyed this post.
Listening to yourself is very important but so difficult…
Even if you’re making efforts then it fades away.

Gotta keep trying.

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