or, what about this scenario: you wish and wish and hope and hope for something, but when you are actually presented with the option to make it happen, then, and only then, you have a gut feeling that you don’t want it anymore!

if you change your mind like that, internally, is it still being indecisive?

I have found that the most important thing in being decisive, is to stick to your guns. after you have made that decision, stick with it. don’t be flexible, don’t let yourself OR others try to change your mind.

I like what this article says, about embracing whatever path, that the outcome of your decision has in store for you.

Handle your happiness, y’all!

Nice collection.

I don’t know if you’re familar with “Sources of Power” by Gary Klein, but it’s a book dedicated to how people make decisions. Not just any people, but it shows how people under the gun (firemen, cops, doctors …) can make split-second decisions with amazing results. It’s a process of pattern-matching and “satisficing.”