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15 Simple Ways to Overcome Anger

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Can you recall the last time you were really angry at someone? So much so that you were physically shaken just at the thought of them? Rarely does this feeling of anger help us in getting what we want. Often, it will work against us, resulting in more pain, unnecessarily.

Even the most gentle of personalities can temporarily turn into a vindictive rascal, if pushed far enough.

A friend of mine is going through a divorce with a spouse who is unreasonably prolonging the process. He’s sad, hurt, upset, frustrated and very, very angry. Words of anger and hatred spout out of his – otherwise polite and thoughtful – mouth. He was no longer his authentic and peaceful self. And he didn’t like who he was becoming.

Through helping him come to a place of understanding and forgiveness of his ex-spouse with love, compassion and humility (we had to dig deep), I realized that the same tools can be used in dealing with other negative emotions.

For sake of simplicity, we will use anger as the target emotion to overcome. Keep in mind that it can be applied to overcome other non-conducive and intense emotions such as jealousy, guilt, hatred, regret and fear.

Why Do We Feel Like Crap?

It’s amazing how much emotion
a little mental concept like ‘my’ can generate.

– Eckhart Tolle

Anger doesn’t feel very good. It’s pretty gross, actually. Our stomach tightens-up, we become sweaty, we react – instead of act – in survival mode. And anger clouds our judgment causing us to respond wildly out of emotion. We’ve all been there. Sometimes, it can get so intense that we tremble passionately while feeling strong hate towards other people. And when we cool down, we would wonder how we allowed ourselves to get in such a messed up state in the first place.

The answer is: Very easily. Allow me to explain.

Emotion is our body’s response to a thought, which could be triggered by an external situation. But this situation is seen through the lens of our own interpretation. Our lens is colored by the mental concepts unique to each of us; concepts like good and bad, mine and yours, like and dislike, right and wrong. Keep in mind we all have different lenses, thus interpretation conflicts are inevitable.

For example, we feel very little emotion when someone else loses their wallet. But when it is our own money, we suddenly feel pain and the desire to hoard it back to us.

The moment we’ve labeled something as “mine”, we will experience mental distress when we’ve interpreted that we have ‘lost’ it or are at the risk of losing it. Whether it is my wallet, my pride, my money, my house, my car, my job, my child, my stocks, my feelings or my dog, as long as we feel that it is lost or threatened, we will experience pain in the form of anger or other strong negative emotions.

We experience pain, because we have been trained since children to believe that the things which we have labeled as ‘mine’, are something that define who we are. We’ve identified with it and falsely believed that if we lost it, or face losing it, we lose ourselves. Suddenly, our ego has nothing to identify itself by. Who are we? This hurts our ego tremendously.

In our minds, we feel entitled to more, whether it is more money, or more respect, or a better job, or a larger house. Amongst it all, we fail to see that our mind will always want more. Greed is a highly addictive state of mind, always growing, blinding us of reality, while convincing us that we’re doing a reasonable thing.

Common Ingredients of Anger:

  • Unfairness – We believe that we have been treated unfairly. We tell ourselves that we deserve more, and we buy into this story that someone has wronged us.
  • Lost – We feel that we have lost something that we have identified ourselves with. Feelings, pride, money, car, job.
  • Blame – We blame other people or external situations for having caused our loss, for taking advantage of us unfairly. The blame often only resides in our heads and is a product of our imagination. We fail to see things from other people’s perspectives. We become deeply selfish.
  • Pain – We experience pain, mental distress, and anxiety. The pain causes physical responses in our body, which disturbs our natural energy flow and state of wellbeing.
  • Focus – We focus on the thing we don’t want, and energize it by complaining about it passionately, and repeating it to as many people who will listen. This creates a downward spiral of anger. “What we focus on expands”, this is true regardless of the emotion.

The interesting thing is that if there are two angry people unhappy with each other, both people feel a sense of loss, unfairness, pain and the need to blame the other person. Who is right? The answer is: both are right and both are wrong.

Why Should We Bother with Overcoming Anger?

Negative emotions like anger kick us into survival mode, as if saying to our body, “we are in danger”. There is a physiological change that takes place in our body to prepare us for fight or flight. These physical responses disrupt the natural flow of energy in our body – affecting our heart, immune system, digestion and hormone production. A negative emotion is therefore toxic to the body and interferes with its harmonious functioning and balance.

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Photo: Gabrielle Hennessey

Prolonged anger, stress and holding grudges will hurt our adrenal gland and immune system. For women, stress on the adrenal gland can affect the reproductive organs (uterus, ovaries) causing them to exhibit abnormal behaviors, potentially resulting in sterility.

Aren’t your physical and mental health worth more than the mental pressure you are voluntarily piling onto yourself? Is it worth it to react out of spiteful emotions and hurt feelings, so that we might temporarily satisfy our pride?

Anger also clouds our judgment and we become consumed with problems and pain. Instead of cutting ourselves loose, free from the self-inflicted pain; we make irrational, unreasonable, regretful and hurtful decisions. In the case of divorces, the legal fees alone can drain one’s savings, unnecessarily leaving both parties unhappy and poor. Nobody wins!

The Fundamentals of Change

Notice how quickly we can fall into a negative state of being? A split second, maybe. By the same reasoning it should take us the same amount of time to shift into a resourceful state of being. The challenge here is that we have been conditioned from a very young age to remain in an un-resourceful state. Nobody gave us the tools to shift our state into a positive one. Often, our parents didn’t know how, and still do not know how.

When negative feelings arise, we have two choices,

  1. To follow the habitual pattern we’ve learned since we were young, to react and allow the negativity to consume us.
  2. Or, to interrupt the pattern we have been conditioned to follow, and in doing so build new neural pathways that allows for alternative possibilities.

There are essentially three ways to interrupt a behavioral pattern:

  • Visual – Change your thoughts.
  • Verbal – Change your language.
  • Kinesthetic – Change your physical position.

Okay, let’s dive into the practical stuff…

 

15 Ways to Overcome Anger

Some of these tools might be more effective for some of us than others. For me, “Look Up!!” has been the most effective (thus, I’m listing it first). I’ve also seen good results where several of these are used in combination.

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Photo: Simón Pais-Thomas

1. Look Up!!!

The fastest way to change negative feelings is by changing our physical position right away. The easiest way to physically change is by moving our eye position. When we are in a negative state, we are likely looking down. Suddenly looking up (into our visual plane) will interrupt the negative patterns of sinking into the quick sand of bad feelings.

Any sudden physical change will do the trick:

  • Stand up and stretch while letting out an audible sigh.
  • Exaggerate and change your facial expressions.
  • Walk over to a window where there is sunlight.
  • Do 10 jumping jacks.
  • Do a ridiculous dance that pokes fun at you.
  • Massage the back of your neck with one hand while singing happy birthday.

Try this next time you feel a negative or unpleasant thought come up.

2. “What Do You Want?”

Sit down and write down exactly what it is that you want out of the current situation. Your job is to describe the end result you would like to see. Be clear, realistic and fair. Be specific with your description. Including dates of when you would like to see the results.

Once you have this clearly mapped out, and when you find yourself drifting into negative thoughts of what you don’t want, you can shift your focus on this list instead.

Also, when we do this exercise consciously, we’ll come to find that the arbitrary and materialistic things that we thought we wanted, aren’t want we want, after all. Clarity is a beautiful thing.

3. Eliminate: Don’t, Not, No

Words such as Don’t, Not, No, Can’t gets us focused on the things that we don’t want. Language is a powerful thing and can influence our subconscious mind, and ultimately our feelings. When you catch yourself using a negated word, see if you can replace it with another word of opposing meaning. Example: instead of saying “I don’t want war”, say “I want peace”.

4. Finding the Light

Darkness can only be eliminated when there is light (like a lamp, or sunlight). In the same way, negative things can only be replaced by positive things. Remember that regardless of what is happening to us externally, or how bad things appear in our mind, we always have the choice to speak and see things positively.

I know this is harder to do when you’re in midst of heated emotions, but I’m a big believer that there is something to be learned from every situation we encounter. Look for the lesson. Find something about the situation that you’ve gained, whether it’s a material possession or an understanding or a personal growth. Find the light so you can uncover the darkness of your mind.

5. Surrender

Surrender to our ego’s need to be right, to blame, to be spiteful, and to be revengeful. Surrender to the moment. Surrender to the pull to become worked-up by the situation.

Become mindful. Watch your thoughts and learn to separate your thoughts from your own identity. Your thoughts are not you.

Things will play out regardless of whether we become emotional or not. Trust that the universe will work its course and do its job. By not surrendering, we get worked up for nothing, and our body will suffer as a result of it.

6. Circle of Influence

When we are feeling down, it’s easy to be sucked into the downward spiral of bad feelings. It really doesn’t help to be around others complaining about the same issues. It’s counter-productive to getting well.

Instead, find a group of people with a positive outlook. When we are around such a group of people, they will remind us of things we already know deep within us, we can start to recognize the good, and the positives. When we are down, we can draw energy from them in order to rise above the problem and negative state.

In the same way that being around negative people can affect you in a negative way, being around happy and optimistic people can raise our awareness, and help us move out of the un-resourceful state.

7. Gratitude Exercise

Find an uninterrupted space, and bring a notepad and pen with you. List out (in as much detail) everything you are grateful for in your life, either in the past, or present; either experiences, relationships, friendships, opportunities or material possessions. Fill up the page, and use as many pages as you have things to be thankful for. Be sure to thank your heart and your body.

This is a simple, yet underestimated tool to help us focus our attention on what matters. This exercise can also shift our state of mind from one of a lower frequency to that of a higher frequency. It also helps us to gain clarity and to remind ourselves that we have much to be thankful for.

No matter how bad things get, we always, always have things to be grateful for. If anything, we have the opportunity of life, in which we have the freedom to grow, to learn, to help others, to create, to experience, to love.

I’ve also found it particularly effective to add silent meditation for 5-10 minutes prior, and visualizing everything on your gratitude list after the gratitude exercise. Try it for yourself!

8. Meditation

Meditation is training for the mind; to calm the noise in our mental space, to lower our thought count, to draw out inner wisdom, and mostly it helps us to recognize and remain anchored in our divine state.

Regardless of what is happening external to us, we have the capacity to remain centered, in a state of acceptance, of flow, of peace, and of love. When we are in this state, we are rational and have the clarity we need to handle any situation with grace, and with minimal stress on our body.

9. Breathing Relaxation Techniques

Most of us are shallow breathers, and air only stays in the top of our lungs. Deep breathing exercises will get more oxygen into our brains, and into the rest of our body. Try this:

  • Sit up straight in your chair, or stand up.
  • Loosen up clothing, especially if your stomach feels tight.
  • Inhale through your nose. Exhale through your mouth.
  • Put one hand on your abdominal area (over your belly).
  • When you inhale, feel your hand expanding as air is filled up in your diaphragm.
  • When you exhale, feel your hand retracting to the initial placement.
  • Count in your mind the number of inhales and exhales, and gradually level them off such that both take equal counts.
  • Slowly, add a count to your exhale.
  • Keep adding a count to your exhale until the count for exhales doubles that of the count for inhales.
  • Repeat this breathing rhythm for 5 to 10 times.
  • Keep your eyes closed in silence for a few minutes afterwards.

10. Laughter!

We cannot laugh and be upset at the same time. When we make the physical movement required to laugh or smile, we instantly feel light-hearted and joyful.

Try it now: give me that beautiful smile of yours. I want a genuine and large smile now! J How do you feel? Do you feel an instant jolt of joy? Did you temporarily forget about your problems?

List out a series of movies that make you laugh and stock them up at home. Or meet up with a humorous friend who can really get you laughing. For my friend going through the divorce, I prescribed Episode 10 of “Survivor Gabon”, he laughed until his stomach hurt and told me the next day that he slept very well, without once thinking about the negativity that would otherwise trigger anger.

11. Forgiveness

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Photo: Cindy Loughridge

For my little vindictive rascals out there, I know the idea to forgive your ‘enemy’ sounds counter-intuitive. The longer you hold on to the grudge, the more painful emotions you will experience, the more turbulence you are putting on your body, the more damage you are inflicting on your long-term health and wellness.

Unable to forgive someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. And there’s no way around it.

12. Snap a Rubber Band

Wear an elastic/rubber band around your wrist, at all times. Every time you find yourself having a thought that would lead to a downward negative cycle, snap the rubber band. It might sting a little. But this actually trains our mind to avoid triggering those thoughts. Pain is an amazing motivator.

13. Identify and Eliminate Your Triggers

Sit down and brainstorm a list of reminders and activities that will trigger this negative emotion in us. It might be hearing the word ‘divorce’, or someone’s name, or going to a particular restaurant.

Commit to yourself to eliminate the mentioning of these triggers from your life. If we know something will upset us, why would we bother triggering it?

14. Identify What Anger Brings

List all the things that you’ve gained as a result of being angry. When you’re done, go down this list and count the number of positive things that are actually conducive to your wellbeing. By the way, “making the other person suffer and feel pain” does not count as “conducive to your wellbeing”.

This exercise helps us bring more awareness, rationality and clarity into the situation.

15. Seek Closure. Solve the Problem

To the best of your ability, do not drag anything on for the sake of “winning” or “being right”; it’s not healthy for anyone involved.

Just because we surrender to the external events and choose not to give them any more attention, does not mean that we sit back passively to let others step all over us.

Take action that will help you move onto the next step, and closer to resolution. Be proactive and thoughtful. The faster you can get the problem resolved, the quicker you can set yourself free, mentally.

* Got tips for dealing with anger? Share your thoughts and stories in the comment section. See you there!

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157 thoughts on 15 Simple Ways to Overcome Anger

  1. Avinash Bhardwaj

    ohh wow amazing … i am feeling so calm and relaxed just by reading it. thanks to you for such a nice article over how to control your anger. i am seriously going to follow these.

  2. Wendy Schmidt

    I like a lot of the steps. I really do. But I also enjoy a good sarcastic joke and some negative humor and a strong swear word once in a while. Yes, positive is good, but not all the time. I’ve been in groups where women refuse to talk about anything painful or negative and that can be a bit, well, weird and a little boring. Balance is always the goal for me. A bit of blowing off steam if fine as long as a person doesn’t get stuck too long in the steam cycle. But complete denial of darker emotions can lead to bad stuff as well.

  3. cadmus

    I’ve been dealing with problems with anger and lingering memories of high school where I was picked on, and I get angry at myself for not fighting back against bullies. But I read the whole article and I loved it though!

  4. Krish

    No doubt, getting angry is one of the worst emotions in any human being. I could never tolerate it in myself, and I never wanted to be in the presence of someone else who was angry. But I had no control over my own anger. I was a slave to it for many years. Of course, I denied that I was often unable to control my anger. Instead, I blamed it on others. Whenever I could, I hid it. At other times, I had so-called righteous anger. I pretended I was in control when actually I was not. The simple fact is that anger ruled me, and I was thoroughly powerless over it. Whenever it sprang up in my heart, I helplessly identified with it. I really had no idea where anger came from. So, I blamed it on whatever I thought to be the cause.

    The effect of anger on me was clear: each time I became angry, I could feel every cell of my body being affected; my mind and body chemistry was immediately altered. The experience left me paralyzed at times, and my life became unmanageable. Then one day I read two verses in the Gita. These two verses capture the entire dynamic of anger, and they offer the only long term solution there is, in my opinion, to conquer anger. Before I came across these verses, I did not know how anger developed and what it actually did to me. All I knew was that I became awfully hurt by it.

    “When a person broods over the objects of sense,
    attachment to them grows in him. From attachment
    springs desire, from desire anger. From anger arises
    delusion, from delusion confused memory, from confused
    memory loss of reason, and from loss of reason he
    perishes.“

    Anger begins with attachment to something. The mind becomes attached to the sense objects of our desire, because consciously or unconsciously we have dwelt on them. Having dwelt on the objects of our senses, the mind develops a sort of clinging to them. For example, one sees a beautiful car and thinks how nice it would be to own the car. If that thought persisted long enough, the individual would have become, again, consciously or unconsciously, attached to the idea of the car–the wanting is stamped in the consciousness of the individual.

    The attachment to the sense object gives rise to desires. These wants are stacked up in the subconscious. When any of the wants is obstructed in any way, there springs anger in the individual. The anger makes its presence known when it perceives the possibility of the desire not getting fulfilled. The presence of even slight anger in the mind makes the mind delusional. A deluded mind mistakes one thing for something else. The deluded mind naturally affects one’s memory, which leads to impaired judgment. Depending on the intensity of anger, judgment of an individual becomes affected in different degrees and ways. Impaired judgment makes one forget the wisdom essential for human existence. It is that wisdom that separates humans from brutes. Estranged from the wisdom one is estranged from the Spirit within; the flame of reason becomes extinguished. Without the power to reason, a confused understanding and stupidity of the mind rules over the individual. Like a blind person, his mind runs helter-skelter and his understanding is overtaken by the delusion. When the recollection of wisdom is impaired and reason extinguished, the intellect has become feeble and he can no longer discriminate between the real and unreal, between right and wrong. Without such discrimination, a human being ceases to be human. Hence, desires lead to attachment, and the frustration of not fulfilling these desires develops into anger, which leads to delusion.

    We have misunderstood the source of our anger. As a result, we fight and alienate others. Of course, most of us would prefer to be free of anger if we could. Often we find that anger comes anyway. The reason is that we have not fully understood the source and structure of how our anger develops.

    So, what are we to do about anger, when it arises? Whenever anger arises in us, we ought to become alert but not become identified with it. We should know that some desire in us has been obstructed, and that if the emotion is allowed rise further, it can ruin us. We should remind ourselves we are not the anger, anger is an emotion and it will pass. Step back and see the anger but remain strong and do not react negatively. But always investigate the source of anger from within, not without.

  5. Melissa

    Great article! Helped me cool down quickly.

  6. S

    thank you. thank you, so much.

  7. Johannes

    Thank you, I have been wasting feelings, been so angry I didn’t want to feel angry but was like a prisoner of anger for a long time.I didn’t really realize how angry I’ve been after dramatic changes and loss of so much. Thank you, I knew some steps before, used them but remained in darkness for many years, but I guess my program missed important steps, steps you present, like “Look Up” what a fantastic step, cant believe I never heard about this, Thank you!

  8. Emily

    this article was great to find after having a frustrating conversation with one of my family members.
    i’ve been super anxious and angry for no reason lately except i’m stressed.
    thanks for the wonderful tips.

    another good way that I’ve found helps me release anger and be happy is take a walk or run, maybe do some yoga. the physical activity really lets your mind go of those pesky problems that make you angry. as a senior in college, i’ve needed ways to help me relax-exercise is definitely one of them.

    thanks again :)

  9. David Jendrycki

    Hi Tina
    I really appreciate your article.
    I need real help and guidance in tempering my anger at work.
    I am the person you wrote about who is nice, personable and friendly yet when I am truly wronged by several individuals at my workplace I go off like an exploding volcano. It is not pleasant and in the end I truly regret it. I feel ashamed.
    Your tips are very valuable to me and I am going to give them a try.
    Thank you for taking the time to help individuals like myself who truly want to be emotionally positive and controlled in situations that when left unchecked can only lead to self destruction.
    Thanks
    David

  10. M J BETTY

    its really very nice and awesome………….

  11. Ellie

    Hi thanx 4 the tips… P.S snapping a rubber band really does work! I take one wherever I go because I always get angry…

  12. cliffchard

    Thank you so much this really great article its really help me, i like the number 1,3 and 4.

  13. Evangelina Favius

    “Unable to forgive is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die” – this is a quote that I would definitely live by. Btw, this article was really inspiring as it relates to me so much. Thank you for sharing!!!

  14. Thank you so much for this post. For a long time now I have felt that a lot of things, even small pettie scenarios or actions or whatever annoyed me. This has helped me to control my anger and keep the smile on my face.

    Thanks very much :)

  15. gianni

    amazing , your way of looking at something that is so destructive, and helping me realize how dumb i am to hold on to anger. you made me laugh, at myself .. i never learned this in college. thankssssssssssssss a million

  16. Danny

    I have a hard time with this. What happens when someone does something to purposefully hurt you? People can be cruel. Should you sit back and allow it to happen? What happens when anger becomes necessary? Isn’t it a natural feeling? What do we do about people who bully, abuse, or exert their power over us? When does enough become enough?

    • hello

      honey, Im a victim of child abuse my own father hit me with a gun. this other guy filmed 19 children over 5 years get raped, killled, and made them dig their own graves. theres so many other monsters like him out there in this ugly world that never got caught who sold these videos for profit. One of these victims was an 18 month old baby. How angry are you?

  17. estrella rodriguez

    I just wanna say thank you for this. I read the whole thing on my phone. And cried in the middle.I’m a 16 year old girl living with my dad and 2 sisters. I have major hate and resentment towards my dad for being physically and mentaly abusive to me. He considers me a whore for being mallested by my uncle as a child, being forced to live with him becomes unbareable at times. But seeing as im only 16 and can’t move out legally im stuck. I have contemplated suicide and running aaway. And at the end of those thoughts ive realized i just want to be happy and that i dont deserve tthis. Ive decided to joined the marines when i graduate. And i really.really. appreciate this article. I just want to keep growing mentally and forgive my dad! And again i just want to thank you so much.

  18. Emily

    These sugestions are great but what if my anger is the result of mental illness. How would I know and is it possible to change behavior without pharmaceuticals? My gma was a crazy b@$&! and when hubs and I fight he says the same thing about me. Obviously I think back to gma who was never diagnosed but it was pretty obvious to those of us whom she treated like crap. I don’t want to let petty anger control my life and relationship but I struggle with knowing if my feelings are legit or irrational. Thanks!

  19. Anonymous

    Sounds great, but not workable.

    It’s very difficult to deal with anger when the only answer to the question “What do I want out of this?” is “I want the other person to stop doing X, Y and Z, because that’s what’s making me angry.” These are not things that I can stop being angry about, because they are anger-producing things that cannot be made neutral for me, but I also know I can’t demand that anyone else change for me just because their behavior makes me angry.

    But the problem is, if the other person doesn’t change their behavior, my next step is to cut them out of my life because I can’t handle their behavior. And because of our mutual circles of friends, that’s not really possible without burning a lot of other bridges.

    • A anonymous

      Anger is a very hard thing to deal with I understand that because I get angery very fast. Here are some tips that I’ve tried to help me with my anger and I hope they help you too.
      Tips below:
      1. Take deep breathes
      2. Take a nice long bath or shower
      3.read a good book you like examples- Star Wars, Sports books, or something that relaxes you
      4. If you have someone there to talk with than do it please. Never let your anger control you, You must contro your anger . If you follow these tips you will feel much better I promise you. Hope these tips helped bye

  20. person #1

    I am losses right now and none of this helped me… but I’m just a hard to help person.

  21. Thank you so much for this article, I had this very morning a very upsetting incident with my girlfriend´s roommate.

    I spent two hours angry, I am a very busy person with loads of work and concentration doesn’t come to me easy due to ADD and being angry made it all worse.

    At first I spoke to my mother, letting out my frustration helped me enough to look for help and that´s when I found this article, I followed each step, specially the Look Up step and It was great aid, I don´t feel completely at peace but it´s a start.

    Again thank you, now I feel more like myself and less like a wronged caveman, I can think clearly now and it feels awesome.

  22. Gwennie

    Seriously a very helpful article on a difficult subject. Thank You.

  23. Ankit

    most of reason of anger is heavy stress and other facts of life. some time we cant happy with current situation so reason it change in anger. We want to change so many things but we don;t have enough rights to change situation reason change in anger and we face problems in life. I know anger is very bad increasing blood pressure, extra stress on mind and many more but we can deal with us. i don;t know how to overcome with anger. yes i have too many problem and in just seconds my thoughts change in anger. every time i want to try keep calm but its not possible . confuse that where to go how to solve my problem.
    While reading this article i thinks that may be its help but can;t work god please help me to overcome with my anger
    i already lost my so many friends. every time hurts too many people my friends, office colleague , my mother, my gilrfriend and so many person who touch with me. don;t know why i am writing all things here. but still i am in anger how to control it don’t understand
    feel like that my head will be blast other wise i punch to someone so no reason to keep calm still in anger please help me to recover my anger. if you have any suggestion or solution for me email me. i am sure may be you not published my comment its not so good i am looking the way to shout loud but how to deal it. currently sitting in my working area and to left my current job work i am finding solution to recover from anger can you suggest me some good things i am also able to spend money also to recover from anger. hope you read out all things and reply me to solve my problem

  24. Bryce

    i have a hard time putting with my sister hyprocracy and i think i am breaking into pieces.

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