Comments on: 20 Ways to Overcome Shyness http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/ Creativity, Clarity & Happiness Wed, 08 Feb 2012 21:43:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ben Holman http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-141551 Ben Holman Mon, 30 Jan 2012 19:18:13 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-141551 I can talk to a lot of people easily without feeling uncomfortable but when I talk to attractive girls or popular people I can feel awkward and my mind drifts away from the conversation and I start feeling self-concious. I can't think of how to carry on the conversation and I start to go red when I reply to the person. It's very annoying and makes me feel less confident. When I was younger I used to be a loud and confident person and was the most popular in the class. I am from the UK so I moved up to secondary school and it was a lot different. I don't know how it happened by I am now the quiet person in the school and I think I might be overcoming it slowly, but I am still quiet and want to overcome it as soon as possible. I am 14 years old by the way. I can talk to a lot of people easily without feeling uncomfortable but when I talk to attractive girls or popular people I can feel awkward and my mind drifts away from the conversation and I start feeling self-concious. I can’t think of how to carry on the conversation and I start to go red when I reply to the person. It’s very annoying and makes me feel less confident.

When I was younger I used to be a loud and confident person and was the most popular in the class. I am from the UK so I moved up to secondary school and it was a lot different. I don’t know how it happened by I am now the quiet person in the school and I think I might be overcoming it slowly, but I am still quiet and want to overcome it as soon as possible. I am 14 years old by the way.

]]> By: guest315 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-141126 guest315 Sun, 22 Jan 2012 01:38:27 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-141126 Very nice article!!! I am quite different from a lot of people. I was never shy in my childhood or in my high school, but after high school shyness took over me and even now I am suffering from it. I was really very confident, positive and very clear about what I had to say. Shyness makes me say things, that I never think I can say. I depicts a wrong personality of a person. I have lost valuable things and opportunities because of my shyness. I pray no one else would suffer from shyness in future and people who are shy will overcome it. Thanks for the article. Very nice article!!!
I am quite different from a lot of people. I was never shy in my childhood or in my high school, but after high school shyness took over me and even now I am suffering from it. I was really very confident, positive and very clear about what I had to say. Shyness makes me say things, that I never think I can say. I depicts a wrong personality of a person. I have lost valuable things and opportunities because of my shyness. I pray no one else would suffer from shyness in future and people who are shy will overcome it.
Thanks for the article.

]]> By: ANON http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-139915 ANON Sun, 08 Jan 2012 19:29:01 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-139915 ''You were just waiting for people to come along who were worthy of your company.” My advice: Don’t always assume you are to blame. Some people aren’t ready for someone of your calibre ;) ”You were just waiting for people to come along who were worthy of your company.”

My advice: Don’t always assume you are to blame. Some people aren’t ready for someone of your calibre ;)

]]> By: Sammi http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-139605 Sammi Fri, 06 Jan 2012 01:19:09 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-139605 The only reason I'm shy is because of past rejection. I've gotten over my more recent rejections, because of my increased self-confidence over the years, but I haven't gotten over the past ones. Is there any ways I can get over my past rejections? The only reason I’m shy is because of past rejection. I’ve gotten over my more recent rejections, because of my increased self-confidence over the years, but I haven’t gotten over the past ones. Is there any ways I can get over my past rejections?

]]> By: sneha http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-139496 sneha Thu, 05 Jan 2012 08:37:27 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-139496 Nice Artical!! ....And Really a realistic talk by O. Foufoutos are excellently working out... Nice Artical!! ….And Really a realistic talk by O. Foufoutos are excellently working out…

]]> By: Sam folley http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-139258 Sam folley Wed, 04 Jan 2012 14:34:18 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-139258 Hey guys, what to do if you get red with out knowing? That's my big enemy!! Hey guys, what to do if you get red with out knowing? That’s my big enemy!!

]]> By: Rachel http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-138140 Rachel Sat, 31 Dec 2011 07:52:29 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-138140 A very well written article- it accurately depicts the problems that this portion of society faces and gives helpful advice, and I will definitely try to apply these tips to my own life. Having been plagued by the effects of shyness, I have allowed it to affect my life and it has worn me down and suppressed my true personality as well. I have always wanted to try and overcome it, but have never been fully committed to doing so. In my opinion, shyness is not a particularly bad quality since it allows us to gain knowledge though silence and become better listeners. However, that combined with a lack of self confidence takes away from multiple opportunities to grow socially and meet other people. Building my confidence will allow me to become the well-rounded person I have always wanted to be. Thank you again for the wonderful advice. -Rachel (sorry about the error in my first post) A very well written article- it accurately depicts the problems that this portion of society faces and gives helpful advice, and I will definitely try to apply these tips to my own life. Having been plagued by the effects of shyness, I have allowed it to affect my life and it has worn me down and suppressed my true personality as well. I have always wanted to try and overcome it, but have never been fully committed to doing so. In my opinion, shyness is not a particularly bad quality since it allows us to gain knowledge though silence and become better listeners. However, that combined with a lack of self confidence takes away from multiple opportunities to grow socially and meet other people. Building my confidence will allow me to become the well-rounded person I have always wanted to be. Thank you again for the wonderful advice.
-Rachel (sorry about the error in my first post)

]]> By: Vidhya http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-136522 Vidhya Sat, 24 Dec 2011 07:00:10 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-136522 Some kids speaks well with their parents and family members, but they feel shy and hardly to speak with third persons or guests, in that situation parents are forcing children to speak with them! Is that good way? how or what to do with different kinds of children?. Some kids speaks well with their parents and family members, but they feel shy and hardly to speak with third persons or guests, in that situation parents are forcing children to speak with them! Is that good way? how or what to do with different kinds of children?.

]]> By: kassaye http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-134445 kassaye Fri, 09 Dec 2011 07:04:28 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-134445 Tnx for ur positive thought TIna:) i hope the articles will be very helpful for me to improve my shyness Tnx for ur positive thought TIna:) i hope the articles will be very helpful for me to improve my shyness

]]> By: mehran http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/comment-page-6/#comment-132766 mehran Sun, 13 Nov 2011 15:30:33 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/20-ways-to-attack-shyness/#comment-132766 hi every body hoping u best wishes i like this articale its like giving a new motavation to someone thanks to google and of course to selena at first i read selena coments its hapens to me oftenly i turn red talking with strangers and now i m not changing my colour talking with strangers good luck hi every body hoping u best wishes i like this articale its like giving a new motavation to someone thanks to google and of course to selena at first i read selena coments its hapens to me oftenly i turn red talking with strangers and now i m not changing my colour talking with strangers good luck

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