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	<title>Comments on: 4 Tips for Saying No: Take Control of Your Time</title>
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		<title>By: Meghashyam</title>
		<link>http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/4-tips-for-saying-no-take-control-of-your-time/comment-page-1/#comment-146536</link>
		<dc:creator>Meghashyam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 12:15:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I loved the post. :)

For many years, I was suffering from this &quot;When I say no, I fee guilty&quot; ailment. Very recently, I realized: I am consciously responsible for everything in my life. I can do what my heart truly desires. I can CHOOSE to help someone out of genuine concern or give in to the sub conscious pattern of helping out of guilt.

That helped me get over the pattern to a good extent. 

Thank you for reinforcing my belief.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved the post. :)</p>
<p>For many years, I was suffering from this &#8220;When I say no, I fee guilty&#8221; ailment. Very recently, I realized: I am consciously responsible for everything in my life. I can do what my heart truly desires. I can CHOOSE to help someone out of genuine concern or give in to the sub conscious pattern of helping out of guilt.</p>
<p>That helped me get over the pattern to a good extent. </p>
<p>Thank you for reinforcing my belief.</p>
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		<title>By: 25 Sharp Cuts of Time Saving Wisdom</title>
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		<dc:creator>25 Sharp Cuts of Time Saving Wisdom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 May 2010 01:18:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Get your priorities straight. – “Understand your priorities.  Don’t over complicate your life.  Especially when you don’t need to.  Don’t take on more than you can handle.  Always make sure that you have enough time to yourself.” – via Think Simple Now [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Get your priorities straight. – “Understand your priorities.  Don’t over complicate your life.  Especially when you don’t need to.  Don’t take on more than you can handle.  Always make sure that you have enough time to yourself.” – via Think Simple Now [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Powiedz &#8220;NIE&#8221; &#124; Jak chcesz, ?eby wygl?da?o Twoje 8 godzin?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Powiedz &#8220;NIE&#8221; &#124; Jak chcesz, ?eby wygl?da?o Twoje 8 godzin?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 16:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: JD</title>
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		<dc:creator>JD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 07:57:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the best ways I&#039;ve learned to say no on the job is to frame it with a condition.  For example, if you can take this off my plate, then I can do that.  Or if I can get resources for this, then I can do that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the best ways I&#8217;ve learned to say no on the job is to frame it with a condition.  For example, if you can take this off my plate, then I can do that.  Or if I can get resources for this, then I can do that.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 01:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 4 Tips for Saying No: Take Control of Your Time - Here are some tips that can help to bring some clarity and lighten up your mental &#8216;load&#8217; when you want to say no. ThinkSimpleNow.com [...]</description>
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		<title>By: pinkblocks - personal power and self help &#187; Blog Carnival of Personal Power November 25, 2007</title>
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		<dc:creator>pinkblocks - personal power and self help &#187; Blog Carnival of Personal Power November 25, 2007</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2007 19:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Su presents 4 Tips for Saying No: Take Control of Your Time posted at Think Simple. Be [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Tina Su</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina Su</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2007 02:20:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aww.. thank you so much Stephen. I&#039;m glad to be of service. You know, there are no accidents in this Universe. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww.. thank you so much Stephen. I&#8217;m glad to be of service. You know, there are no accidents in this Universe. :)</p>
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		<title>By: Stephen Hopson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephen Hopson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2007 00:46:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is an EXCELLENT article and perfect timing b/c not only does it complement my article that you responded to over at Alex Shalman&#039;s blog, but it is a sign from the universe.

I&#039;m in a situation right now where I absolutely do not want to do something but I know others will be surprised if they learned my true feelings.  This article was a sign from the universe to act on my true feelings, which is to say NO.

Thanks!!

Stephen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an EXCELLENT article and perfect timing b/c not only does it complement my article that you responded to over at Alex Shalman&#8217;s blog, but it is a sign from the universe.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m in a situation right now where I absolutely do not want to do something but I know others will be surprised if they learned my true feelings.  This article was a sign from the universe to act on my true feelings, which is to say NO.</p>
<p>Thanks!!</p>
<p>Stephen</p>
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		<title>By: Tina Su</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina Su</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 14:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lawrence, I can&#039;t wait to read it when you are done. This topic is close to my heart as well. I&#039;ve spent a lot of time learning to say no, especially under social pressures.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lawrence, I can&#8217;t wait to read it when you are done. This topic is close to my heart as well. I&#8217;ve spent a lot of time learning to say no, especially under social pressures.</p>
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