Comments on: Surrender to Emotional Pain

By: rakhesh

rakhesh — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 16:48:15 +0000

This website is great to all, getting answers for theirs problem and learning,
you are an angel,showing and guiding people,
making an impact to the lives of people,
god bless for your wonderful work,keep the good work

By: rakhesh

rakhesh — Sat, 26 Nov 2011 14:10:44 +0000

god bless you tina for writng this beautiful journal,

keep up the good work,

By: Magena

Magena — Sun, 04 Sep 2011 11:48:04 +0000

Very beautiful. Brought a tear to my eyes.

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how to enlarge — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 05:51:13 +0000

Great, great stuff, thanks! You made the front page at delicious — well deserved. I’m saving this piece to reread down the road. Keep up the wonderful work!

By: GinaMarie

GinaMarie — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 22:51:58 +0000

I think one of the biggest mistakes we make is trying to resist the pain. This is why I love this article so much, sometimes you have to surrender to pain because pain is just a natural part of life. Like you mention life challenges are here to teach us lessons and sometimes those lessons “feel” painful. I think by changing our perspective about emotional pain we can come to accept when life throws us challenges.

For me I all about using painful experiences for my advantages. Surrendering to the moment letting it out not holding it in and then switch perspective…see the bigger picture and look into what life is trying to teach you. As you mention a lot of painful experiences can be avoided it really is all about your mindset.

By: Parker Lee

Parker Lee — Thu, 06 May 2010 04:44:24 +0000

Alright, I understand that I’m late. However, Tina your posts make me feel so at peace. I enjoy coming each and everyday catching up on your old posts.

Parker

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By: Andy

Andy — Mon, 11 May 2009 02:01:08 +0000

You mention facing death as something that we can endure. What if it’s your OWN death? Ever been in that spot? I’d be curious to see what you have to say about that.

I don’t know why the charming vision of that old woman spilling her soup bugged me so much. Maybe because it was projection on your part. You have no idea what was going through her mind. You imagined someone who proudly got dressed and primped to face the world…despite her age. Maybe she isn’t accepting of it. Maybe she was out trying to find someone to fall in love with. Maybe the other older people who are “waiting for death” are accepting of it…and don’t need to be at THE restaurant…pretending to enjoy the latest “must eat”. Maybe they are OK and content…and happy because they’ve jumped off the treadmill and understand that it’s OK to quit the game.

This may come off as angry…and I guess I am. I feel this way because I hear and read these things and so much of it is opinion. “This is what you should do. Don’t be down. Grab as much life as you can!” When really…many of those people have missed the point of living in the first place.

Sorry for the jerky tone. I really am. I am totally going to follow this site. But I also like to push back with my own opinions. This would be one of them.

Thanks for listening.

By: NLP Counsellor

NLP Counsellor — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 08:47:20 +0000

Interesting blog post. What would you say was the most important factor in using NLP?