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Dreams Come True: Story of Audacity

Photo by Kai Z Feng. Follow him on flickr.

What are your dreams? What are you passionate about?

Around the time I graduated University I became fascinatedwith photography. It became my first passion. I dreamed of becoming a professional photographer.

I loved photography, and dove in head first determined to make my dreams come true. I read books, took countless images, invested in equipments, spent countless hours in Photoshop, attended gallery showings, and took classes on specialized subjects.

I loved photography so much that –at one point- I built a darkroom from scratch, rented a large loft space to have my ideal studio setup and eventually married a photographer – who I admired, because he was so confident with his craft and was among the few successful working photographers I’d met. Most other photographers I encountered all struggled to make ends meet.

The thing I loved about photography was that it gave me a tool with which to express myself emotionally, to do something from the heart, to capture moments of truth -powerful enough to bring me to tears. It increased my capacity to feel, and heightened my awareness and ability to connect with other people.

Some of the most blissful, spiritual, loving, heart-felt moments I’ve ever experienced, happened in the dark room, under the amber lights, by myself, as I witness an image come to life in the developer.

I wanted to share that with you, because it is a big part of where I came from, and my foundation for writing. Actually, I stopped taking pictures, after accidentally discovering that the same creative, powerful, spiritual experiences can be evoked through writing – as I do here (which is my other dream come true story).

I also wanted to share that with you, because I want to tell you what I learned through my experiences of going from amateur to semi-pro in the photography world in a short span of time.

I learned these things in making my photography dream a reality:

  1. People will have confidence in you if you have confidence in yourself.
  2. Persistence pays off.
  3. Practice makes you better
  4. You don’t need a formal education or years of experience to make it. Passion is more important.
  5. It’s mostly about how you view yourself – that’s how the world will perceive you.
  6. Re: Confidence. Fake it till you make it.
  7. Audacity is important

I just want to spend a moment on Audacity, and the importance of it in seeing our dreams come true.

When you are trying to make it in any industry as a newbie, having the guts to approach people you don’t know –despite fear and insecurities- is probably your fastest route to success in that industry.

When I started pursuing photography. I didn’t have much technical knowledge, I didn’t have the experience, I didn’t have the pro cameras, I didn’t really know what I was doing. I was a computer geek, who had a burning desire to photograph people.

My dream was to capture images that moved people, to capture a moment of truth, and to have my photos published. I knew it was going to happen, someday, but I didn’t know how. In the mean time, I did everything I could to get my self closer to my dream vision.

When Anthony Bourdain visited Seattle on a book/talk tour, I walked up to him and asked him if I could have 10 minutes of his time. And to my surprise, he said yes. Here’s the photo I took from that day:

I did the same with Douglas Coupland. Here’s his photo:

I did the same with Russell Simmons, but the room was too dark, and the photo didn’t come out.

Right after one of Joshua Roman’s concerts, I ran up on stage and asked if I could take his portrait sometime. I gave him my card and thanked him for considering it. I was so nervous, all I remember is my heart beating loudly, and feeling insecure as others watched me from off stage.

He showed up in my studio a few days later, we jammed it out and got some great photos. We became good friends. My husband and I ended up doing Josh’s publicity photos since 2007. And most recently, he hired me to document his wedding, knowing that I’d never done a wedding before. He trusted me more than I trusted myself.

Here are some photos with Joshua from our earlier sessions:

My goal at the time was to be published, and be taken seriously. And I was able to do that within my first year of shooting. The photos of Joshua were later published by over 50 publications and media outlets – they’ve been on the cover of magazines, used in newspapers, promotional materials and graced the center of concert posters.

One of my Tibet travel photos was published in the book “The Best of Photography 2007”. And an image from my Nepal collection was sold and published by the San Francisco Chronicles.

When you believe strongly in something, or some *seemingly* impossible dream, just go after it, and trust that it will become a reality soon. Your faith in yourself and your craft is vital.

Do everything you can now to get one step closer to your dream. Do it despite fear. Do it despite insecurities. Do it despite no one else believing in you. Do it despite a lack of education or experience. Do it despite not knowing how-to. Just start with baby steps.

When we follow our hearts, magic happens.

Do it, even if sometimes following our hearts mean doing uncomfortable things like walking up to strangers, or saying things that might make us look stupid, or potentially getting caught with our “pants down” for not knowing what we’re doing. We all have those insecurities.

From years of developing a thick skin and doing things that scared me, I do know one thing to be true: when you sincerely take steps towards your goal, regardless of what that goal is, the universe will reward you in unexpected ways which will propel you to surpass your original goal and to reach your dreams.

The trick is to keep going, despite not knowing exactly how we will arrive there, and despite all of these mental tricks we play on ourselves.

The only thing we know right now is the next baby step we can take. Don’t trivialize or demoralize the power of baby steps. It’s important.

It’s important, because baby steps in the direction of our dreams, can mean that we eventually get there. And along the road, someone may surprise us and give us a ride in their car, allowing us to get there faster than anticipated.

People tend to give too much credit to luck, and natural talent. And then we judge ourselves for lacking talent and luck, thus, justifying our lack of action and lack of focus.

I love the saying that luck is the intersection between preparation and opportunity. It truly is. Luck is certainly most kind to those who have actively taken large steps towards their desired destination.

So what is it that you are dreaming about? What would make your dreams come true? What can you do this week, tomorrow, tonight that will take you one step closer? Remember, the step doesn’t have to be big; a tiny baby step will suffice. :)


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Tina Su is a mom, a wife, a lover of Apple products and a CHO (Chief Happiness Officer) for our motivational community: Think Simple Now. She is obsessed with encouraging and empowering people to lead conscious and happy lives. Subscribe to new inspiring stories each week. You can also subscribe to Tina on Facebook.

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21 thoughts on Dreams Come True: Story of Audacity

  1. Very nice Tina! It’s wonderful you did’t allow your passion to intimidate you. Even though you knew little about photography you went forward anyway and took charge. It’s important to not let ourselves feel overwhelmed with our desires, which is why I like what you said about baby steps. A little at a time! Thanks Tina!

  2. Photography is a passion of mine and one of my promises to myself for 2011 is to do more with my wonderful photography club. I’ve been a part of it for years but last year I did not attend a single event. I do nurture my passion when I travel though. My husband got me my first DSLR camera as a gift last year…I can’t believe I lived this long without a telephoto lens. :)

  3. Why did you write about that today????? it might just be an answer to a very very important question I have!! Luck? Nahh….you were just on the intersection :-) thanks

  4. Gaby

    Great post! It’s just what I needed. THANK YOU!

  5. Michelle

    thank you..I needed this today.

  6. Very nice, Tina. Simple, powerful, direct and so true. We really need to just believe and keep taking action, with complete diligence, great courage and faith in our heart. Thank you for the inspiration. So glad you’re writing again :)

  7. Beautiful and inspiring article, Tina! I dream of being a full-time writer and I know someday (soon!) I’m going to make that dream a reality. Thanks for sharing this!

  8. Thank you, just what I needed – again. I read & have written about action toward goals but it’s wonderful to be reminded. It’s not always easy to keep making baby steps so the encouragement is priceless. My love for writing has lead me to my passion for radio. (If TSN ever needs a voice, I’d love to be a host! ;) haha) Somedays the dream seems foolish, other days it feels foolish to give up. Thanks & take care.

  9. I love how you took audacious action toward your dreams and that made it happen for you. You’re so right about confidence. Last year was my “year of confidence” and now this year I’m perfecting my craft. I think this two-step process is the best way to grow, evolve, and make your dreams happen. :)

  10. Tina, wonderful post. My favorite part: “People tend to give too much credit to luck, and natural talent. And then we judge ourselves for lacking talent and luck, thus, justifying our lack of action and lack of focus.”

    You’re a beautifully talented soul…and the photo of Anthony Bourdain–nicely done–it radiates with much warmth.

  11. Jay R.

    Great post! I love this!

  12. Sourav Banerjee

    You give me two most precious things in life for life~ HOPE and FAITH for ME. Love and Grace to You Tina~

  13. This is so relevant to my life right now – Thanks for the motivation;)

  14. Thanks Tina for your audacity…

    Someone once said to me that if I was to ever live – I needed to live audaciously.

    And I love some of the definitions of that word – invulnerable to fear or intimidation; unrestrained by convention or propriety; disposed to venture or take risks; showing willingness to take bold risks; fearless daring; aggressive boldness or unmitigated effrontery

  15. Hi Tina,

    I just want to say that this is honestly one of my favorites blogs to read. Unlike so many other of my subscriptions, I actually read all of your posts as they come in (usually on my blackberry!). So, thank you. :)

  16. Alex

    That was an amazing story, you just gave me the confidence I need to do something I’ve been wanting to do for a long time, Thank You, I really appreciate it =) and just wondering do you have any other stories published somewhere? , Alex

  17. Tina,
    LOVE this article; reading it as we are upon the New Year and I am setting all my goals and wild intentions for 2012 is PERFECT. I am a big believer in we make our lives and how you have to dream big and MAKE it happen. When we do that the universe definitely rewards us in a great ways.
    Here’s to living and dreaming BIG!

  18. Tina, love how you say you have to keep going even if you don’t know how you going to get there. It’s amazing how much we can accomplish if we are not thinking about our fears but rather about who we could help with what we are so passionate. Just found you today and this was so inspiring to me. Thank you


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