http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/ Creativity, Clarity & Happiness Mon, 21 May 2012 20:41:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-144232 Todd Gray Tue, 28 Feb 2012 20:24:06 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-144232 Mirroring is an excellent, time proven way to gain rapport with another person! In addition to mirroring their body language, it also helps to speak in a similar tone (tonality) and to engage them with a comfortable level of eye contact. I find that it helps to think of "mirroring" as a kind of "dance" in which the people involved fall in step with one another in a manner which is pleasant and unforced. Be sure not to mimic the other person, but rather do something like match their arm movements with small hand gestures, their body movements, by your head movements, this is called cross-over mirroring and it is highly effective without being noticeable in such a way to be interpreted as offensive. Mirroring is an excellent, time proven way to gain rapport with another person! In addition to mirroring their body language, it also helps to speak in a similar tone (tonality) and to engage them with a comfortable level of eye contact. I find that it helps to think of “mirroring” as a kind of “dance” in which the people involved fall in step with one another in a manner which is pleasant and unforced. Be sure not to mimic the other person, but rather do something like match their arm movements with small hand gestures, their body movements, by your head movements, this is called cross-over mirroring and it is highly effective without being noticeable in such a way to be interpreted as offensive.

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-133232 Excellent LukeB Tue, 22 Nov 2011 19:03:18 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-133232 awesome tips here on charisma thanks a lot for sharing. awesome tips here on charisma thanks a lot for sharing.

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-121409 Mark Fri, 18 Feb 2011 23:46:23 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-121409 What a great article, really. This is one of those things I wish I could have read 20 years ago. I wonder how much different my life would be today if I did. What a great article, really. This is one of those things I wish I could have read 20 years ago. I wonder how much different my life would be today if I did.

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-120289 Bill Kernoczy Sun, 17 Oct 2010 05:35:35 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-120289 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">8 Keys to instant charisma - very interesting and sounds like stuff you should be doing anyway http://ow.ly/2UBbe</span></span> 8 Keys to instant charisma – very interesting and sounds like stuff you should be doing anyway http://ow.ly/2UBbe

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-120290 kr1s Fri, 15 Oct 2010 20:36:42 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-120290 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/AlexHervaud">@AlexHervaud</a>: LOL LOL LOL RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/fluc">@fluc</a>: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/delgoff">@delgoff</a> http://bit.ly/WwOdW</span></span> RT @AlexHervaud: LOL LOL LOL RT @fluc: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que @delgoff http://bit.ly/WwOdW

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-120291 Melodie Bos Fri, 15 Oct 2010 20:11:07 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-120291 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/AlexHervaud">@AlexHervaud</a>: LOL LOL LOL RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/fluc">@fluc</a>: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/delgoff">@delgoff</a> http://bit.ly/WwOdW</span></span> RT @AlexHervaud: LOL LOL LOL RT @fluc: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que @delgoff http://bit.ly/WwOdW

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-120292 v. Fri, 15 Oct 2010 18:24:11 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-120292 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">MDR MDR MDR RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/AlexHervaud">@AlexHervaud</a> LOL LOL LOL RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/fluc">@fluc</a>: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/delgoff">@delgoff</a> http://bit.ly/WwOdW</span></span> MDR MDR MDR RT @AlexHervaud LOL LOL LOL RT @fluc: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que @delgoff http://bit.ly/WwOdW

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-120293 claire Fri, 15 Oct 2010 18:18:40 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-120293 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">mouwahaha (made my day) RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/fluc">@fluc</a>: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/delgoff">@delgoff</a> http://bit.ly/WwOdW</span></span> mouwahaha (made my day) RT @fluc: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que @delgoff http://bit.ly/WwOdW

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-120294 Alex Hervaud Fri, 15 Oct 2010 18:18:32 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-120294 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">LOL LOL LOL RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/fluc">@fluc</a>: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/delgoff">@delgoff</a> http://bit.ly/WwOdW</span></span> LOL LOL LOL RT @fluc: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que @delgoff http://bit.ly/WwOdW

]]> http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/comment-page-3/#comment-120295 Fred Fri, 15 Oct 2010 18:16:07 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/8-keys-to-instant-charisma/#comment-120295 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/fluc">@fluc</a>: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/delgoff">@delgoff</a> http://bit.ly/WwOdW</span></span> RT @fluc: Les 8 clés pour avoir autant de charisme que @delgoff http://bit.ly/WwOdW

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