Comments on: How to Find True Love http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/ Creativity, Clarity & Happiness Mon, 21 May 2012 20:41:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Chayya http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-146258 Chayya Wed, 18 Apr 2012 00:32:46 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-146258 Fantastic piece! I've just had to deal with a guy I really really liked - I genuinely thought that he was different - who told me that I was "a kid" (age gap wise) and that he wanted to be close friends after having an emotional relationship to him. It's a bit like kidnappers telling you to stay in touch! I found how much I relate to your Personal Experience part; it felt like I was reading myself on the screen. It's a rotten rut and it's so hard to break out of and I've reached that same realisation that you did. Thank you, your piece has given me a bit of hope and more importantly: Find myself, focus on myself and build myself into a strong character. Thank you :) Fantastic piece! I’ve just had to deal with a guy I really really liked – I genuinely thought that he was different – who told me that I was “a kid” (age gap wise) and that he wanted to be close friends after having an emotional relationship to him.
It’s a bit like kidnappers telling you to stay in touch!
I found how much I relate to your Personal Experience part; it felt like I was reading myself on the screen. It’s a rotten rut and it’s so hard to break out of and I’ve reached that same realisation that you did.
Thank you, your piece has given me a bit of hope and more importantly: Find myself, focus on myself and build myself into a strong character.
Thank you :)

]]> By: yawer http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-146074 yawer Tue, 10 Apr 2012 13:16:28 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-146074 love needs only true path which who select this path luck will with him always and his life partner always loves you in true heart!!!!!!!(smartyaweralwayslovesaarifa) love needs only true path which who select this path luck will with him always and his life partner always loves you in true heart!!!!!!!(smartyaweralwayslovesaarifa)

]]> By: Isaac Sarayiah http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-145969 Isaac Sarayiah Sat, 07 Apr 2012 20:24:59 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-145969 Hi Tina Thank you for sharing that and I hope you are very well? I don't necessarily agree with all your points, but some most definitely. I found my True Soul Mate in Oct 07, but disaster was to hit and it almost cost me my life from a broken heart. It led me to create my own blog - <a href="http://www.theSarayiahpost.com" rel="nofollow">www.theSarayiahpost.com</a> which is my views on Life, Love and Relationships to help others... In 7 months it is now one of the most read websites in the UK. Maybe you are your readers may also find it helps them. Happy Easter. Love Isaac Sarayiah Hi Tina
Thank you for sharing that and I hope you are very well? I don’t necessarily agree with all your points, but some most definitely. I found my True Soul Mate in Oct 07, but disaster was to hit and it almost cost me my life from a broken heart. It led me to create my own blog – http://www.theSarayiahpost.com which is my views on Life, Love and Relationships to help others… In 7 months it is now one of the most read websites in the UK.

Maybe you are your readers may also find it helps them.

Happy Easter.
Love
Isaac Sarayiah

]]> By: Aha love. lol. http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-145663 Aha love. lol. Thu, 29 Mar 2012 19:29:06 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-145663 Love. Wow. Love? People still look for that? people still think that can happen. Looka t the way people are. Slimy, fake, hateful, the only reason why they want love is so they can have sex. If love exists, it is for the ones with wealith or beauty. if you are not good- looking, or rich you will not find it. Don't misjudge me as a nice guy either. Nice guys finish first if they got money or looks. So do bad boys. I tell many that I want love and they all say "oh, yuo don;t need it. Love the people around you. F*** that. I do love the people around me. What's wrong with wanting love? What wanting love a s a 19-year old and saying I need a girl Makes me some perverted sex pervert F***twat? Dear god -_-. If you don't like my ranting, I apologize but I'm gonna say what i need to say. I may not be prince Charming but I think I deserve a little bit of love. I've always been the one being picked on, I've always been the one people are fake too. Is it too much to ask to actually have a girl love me for me and not be told "Oh, you need to love yourself first". "Oh don't go for looks just go for personality". Or all the fake people saying "Oh you'll find somebody. Everyone does." "You'll figure it out, everyone does" It pisses me off really. The author talks about how she went from relationship to relationship when she was in High School. That's great. I've had one peck on the lips my whole entire f***ing life. I can't even understand half of what people say, because I don't know s*** about relationships because I've never even been in one. I have this thing called Asperger's which makes it hard for me to even connect with people. I'm this skinny little kid with glasses, acne, red hair, and absolutely no self-confidence. They say you have to love yourself before you can find love. My dad walked out on me when i was 2 years old. I've evn started praying to God just because I want a girl so bad. In the Expendables there's aline that goes "Those who do best with women are the ones who least need it" I'm not gonna lie, it's true. the weak ones like me don't find love. yeah i just told you all my life story and I didn't do it for you. I ddi it because I need to just write on this. hate it, call me a little POS like evryone else. But I'm a little weak boy who wants love. FML. Love. Wow. Love? People still look for that? people still think that can happen. Looka t the way people are. Slimy, fake, hateful, the only reason why they want love is so they can have sex. If love exists, it is for the ones with wealith or beauty. if you are not good- looking, or rich you will not find it. Don’t misjudge me as a nice guy either. Nice guys finish first if they got money or looks. So do bad boys. I tell many that I want love and they all say “oh, yuo don;t need it. Love the people around you. F*** that. I do love the people around me. What’s wrong with wanting love? What wanting love a s a 19-year old and saying I need a girl Makes me some perverted sex pervert F***twat? Dear god -_-. If you don’t like my ranting, I apologize but I’m gonna say what i need to say. I may not be prince Charming but I think I deserve a little bit of love. I’ve always been the one being picked on, I’ve always been the one people are fake too. Is it too much to ask to actually have a girl love me for me and not be told “Oh, you need to love yourself first”. “Oh don’t go for looks just go for personality”. Or all the fake people saying “Oh you’ll find somebody. Everyone does.” “You’ll figure it out, everyone does” It pisses me off really. The author talks about how she went from relationship to relationship when she was in High School. That’s great. I’ve had one peck on the lips my whole entire f***ing life. I can’t even understand half of what people say, because I don’t know s*** about relationships because I’ve never even been in one. I have this thing called Asperger’s which makes it hard for me to even connect with people. I’m this skinny little kid with glasses, acne, red hair, and absolutely no self-confidence. They say you have to love yourself before you can find love. My dad walked out on me when i was 2 years old. I’ve evn started praying to God just because I want a girl so bad. In the Expendables there’s aline that goes “Those who do best with women are the ones who least need it” I’m not gonna lie, it’s true. the weak ones like me don’t find love. yeah i just told you all my life story and I didn’t do it for you. I ddi it because I need to just write on this. hate it, call me a little POS like evryone else. But I’m a little weak boy who wants love. FML.

]]> By: JRA-Member http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-145631 JRA-Member Thu, 29 Mar 2012 00:17:14 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-145631 Been reading many comments here and I found them very interesting. Never give up on your dreams, never give up on finding the right person to share all the moments of Joy and sadness with. No one is perfect, we all have imperfections. Always look at the positives in people, they do shine through. I believe there is a right person for someone out there, some of us may have to endure the mountains to find them, but never give up. Everyone deserves to find that happiness. It all starts with us. If you give up it will never happen, but if you try and put aside fear, you may supprise yourself. Sometimes it takes something as little as faith. I have been looking to meet someone new, Its nice to meet new people, so I joined a site to do this: http://juicyredapple.com.au (JRA) Even If I succeed in finding friendship. It all counts! Anyways Good luck everyone. and thanks for the articles, they were enlighting :) Been reading many comments here and I found them very interesting.

Never give up on your dreams, never give up on finding the right person to share all the moments of Joy and sadness with. No one is perfect, we all have imperfections. Always look at the positives in people, they do shine through.

I believe there is a right person for someone out there, some of us may have to endure the mountains to find them, but never give up. Everyone deserves to find that happiness. It all starts with us. If you give up it will never happen, but if you try and put aside fear, you may supprise yourself.

Sometimes it takes something as little as faith.

I have been looking to meet someone new, Its nice to meet new people, so I joined a site to do this: http://juicyredapple.com.au (JRA) Even If I succeed in finding friendship. It all counts!

Anyways Good luck everyone. and thanks for the articles, they were enlighting :)

]]> By: Anna http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-145444 Anna Thu, 22 Mar 2012 00:55:06 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-145444 I really wish & want to believe that the advice in this article will help me find someone. I've dreamt of settling down my whole life. Interestingly, what I've suddenly realized is WHY all of my previous relationships (& friendships) have not worked out. I looked at my MR list and at the top I'd actually written 'not be someone's 2nd choice'. In every relationship I've been in, I've ALWAYS run around after them, put their needs/wants before mine and have given up all my dreams just to avoid being alone. Which I now am. On the basis of this realization, I have just made 2 decisions: (1) to join some local classes, on my own, doing something I fancy learning, just for me. (2) I'm NEVER going to put someone before me again, even if that means being alone for good. (I figure I can't be any more alone than I currently am, so what do I have to lose?) I wish you all great success in finding someone who truly wants you and someone you truly want too. I really wish & want to believe that the advice in this article will help me find someone. I’ve dreamt of settling down my whole life.

Interestingly, what I’ve suddenly realized is WHY all of my previous relationships (& friendships) have not worked out. I looked at my MR list and at the top I’d actually written ‘not be someone’s 2nd choice’. In every relationship I’ve been in, I’ve ALWAYS run around after them, put their needs/wants before mine and have given up all my dreams just to avoid being alone. Which I now am.

On the basis of this realization, I have just made 2 decisions:
(1) to join some local classes, on my own, doing something I fancy learning, just for me.
(2) I’m NEVER going to put someone before me again, even if that means being alone for good. (I figure I can’t be any more alone than I currently am, so what do I have to lose?)

I wish you all great success in finding someone who truly wants you and someone you truly want too.

]]> By: Colby http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-144845 Colby Fri, 09 Mar 2012 15:47:01 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-144845 When I was 6, I was in a sever car accident; I lost a little brother, and spent 3 months in the hospital. After that, I found it impossible to love myself. I went through grade school, middle school, and high school, suffering from depression, survivors guilt, and epilepsy. I never did date or party, or do any of the typical teenage things. I was at a breaking point, in 2011, when I went to a support chat, and everything changed. I started talking to a user in the chat, kept that up for several weeks, and eventually moved on to texting, and phone calls. We finally met, the week of Thanksgiving. I took a 48 hour Greyhound bus trip, out to meet a woman whom I had only talked to, and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I can't wait until we start a family. When I was 6, I was in a sever car accident; I lost a little brother, and spent 3 months in the hospital. After that, I found it impossible to love myself. I went through grade school, middle school, and high school, suffering from depression, survivors guilt, and epilepsy. I never did date or party, or do any of the typical teenage things. I was at a breaking point, in 2011, when I went to a support chat, and everything changed. I started talking to a user in the chat, kept that up for several weeks, and eventually moved on to texting, and phone calls. We finally met, the week of Thanksgiving. I took a 48 hour Greyhound bus trip, out to meet a woman whom I had only talked to, and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I can’t wait until we start a family.

]]> By: truth http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-143344 truth Sat, 18 Feb 2012 23:13:35 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-143344 Here is a fact there is no pure love in this world .. I think the love will be experinced properly in heaven . in this world .. there is love but it is mixed with other bad factors like : greed , ego and to take benefit and that's it . can you find a girle or a guy who is willing to devote him/her self to you completly ? The answer is 1/1000000 ... don't count the zeros .. they are 6 Here is a fact

there is no pure love in this world ..

I think the love will be experinced properly in heaven .

in this world .. there is love but it is mixed with other bad factors like : greed , ego and to take benefit and that’s it .

can you find a girle or a guy who is willing to devote him/her self to you completly ?

The answer is 1/1000000 … don’t count the zeros .. they are 6

]]> By: D http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-142557 D Wed, 08 Feb 2012 02:39:58 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-142557 This all makes sense IF you have guys to choose from. Everyone seems to think I have an amazing social life when in fact there is ZERO going on. I don't even know of any single men. All couples. None of my friends know of any single guys, either, except for very obvious weirdos -- guys with cats who use man purses and have B.O. and erectile dysfunction. Everyone is hooked up. Online, it's worse. Guys my age looking for 20 year olds. How low do I have to lower my standards? 25 years older? Fat? Accountants? I just can't. This all makes sense IF you have guys to choose from. Everyone seems to think I have an amazing social life when in fact there is ZERO going on. I don’t even know of any single men. All couples. None of my friends know of any single guys, either, except for very obvious weirdos — guys with cats who use man purses and have B.O. and erectile dysfunction. Everyone is hooked up. Online, it’s worse. Guys my age looking for 20 year olds. How low do I have to lower my standards? 25 years older? Fat? Accountants? I just can’t.

]]> By: Júlia http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/comment-page-4/#comment-141833 Júlia Thu, 02 Feb 2012 20:52:03 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-find-true-love/#comment-141833 What is? What is?

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