Comments on: How to Keep a Relationship http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/ Creativity, Clarity & Happiness Wed, 08 Feb 2012 21:43:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: boduk balonzo http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-138288 boduk balonzo Sat, 31 Dec 2011 20:32:33 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-138288 wow very nice you help me a lot.. and i learned many thing in this article and i see my mistake in life or in a relation thanks again. now i can control my emotion... wow very nice you help me a lot.. and i learned many thing in this article
and i see my mistake in life or in a relation

thanks again. now i can control my emotion…

]]> By: Dre http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-133288 Dre Wed, 23 Nov 2011 15:22:38 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-133288 Superb article Tina, learnt a lot from it. Many of those listed items were probably something which I had realised at one point or another, however, never been able to put them together or make sense of them in the way that you did. Kudos to you for that! Superb article Tina, learnt a lot from it. Many of those listed items were probably something which I had realised at one point or another, however, never been able to put them together or make sense of them in the way that you did. Kudos to you for that!

]]> By: Val http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-132865 Val Tue, 15 Nov 2011 16:32:12 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-132865 I have a simple question, what action needs to be taken if both partners are in the crying baby state, and thus neither are able to help the other? I have a simple question, what action needs to be taken if both partners are in the crying baby state, and thus neither are able to help the other?

]]> By: Tommy http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-131207 Tommy Wed, 05 Oct 2011 17:22:12 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-131207 Hello Tina, I've read your article but i'd like to ask you for your advice. I've met a wonderful girl and we quickly got together and it seemed we were made for each other. In a very short period of time I started having really strong feelings for her, like I've never felt in my life, I'd literally do ANYTHING for her! and i could see the happiness on her face, i could see she was in love with me but a few days ago something changed in her behavior, she got a little colder and I started losing my confidence. I'm afraid i'm gonna lose her, i'm afraid that expressing my feelings was not a good thing and now i'm being less interesting to her. Why winning her heart was so easy and natural but keeping her it seems such a hard thing to do? because i don't what to do and how to act from now on... I feel i'm losing her more and more everyday, please Tina, tell me what to do to win her back ! show me the right way for keeping this relationship alive. Please! Tommy Treitli Hello Tina,

I’ve read your article but i’d like to ask you for your advice.
I’ve met a wonderful girl and we quickly got together and it seemed we were made for each other. In a very short period of time I started having really strong feelings for her, like I’ve never felt in my life, I’d literally do ANYTHING for her! and i could see the happiness on her face, i could see she was in love with me but a few days ago something changed in her behavior, she got a little colder and I started losing my confidence. I’m afraid i’m gonna lose her, i’m afraid that expressing my feelings was not a good thing and now i’m being less interesting to her.
Why winning her heart was so easy and natural but keeping her it seems such a hard thing to do? because i don’t what to do and how to act from now on… I feel i’m losing her more and more everyday, please Tina, tell me what to do to win her back ! show me the right way for keeping this relationship alive.
Please!

Tommy Treitli

]]> By: gill gray http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-128765 gill gray Sun, 04 Sep 2011 15:10:51 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-128765 Brilliant blog - I found it so helpful, both for dealing with my very painful relationship breakdown, and preparing for another. Forgiveness - a hard hard thing to do, but I know I have to do it to move on - hardest is to forgive the individual who effectively drove a great chasm between us. It is hard to stop feelings of hatred towards this person. Logically I know this negative emotion is only damaging myself, aand is no way touching the person towards whom it is being channelled, and I have to find a way to stop it. I am practising positive affirmations, going for long walks in the mountains and swimming in the river, which has the effect of taking my emotions and sweeping them downstream to the sea - very therapeutic short term strategy. I have two 'sayings' when I am at rock bottom..... 'The only way is up' and 'I'm still standing' Thank you for these articles. I hope many more people will read them. Brilliant blog – I found it so helpful, both for dealing with my very painful relationship breakdown, and preparing for another. Forgiveness – a hard hard thing to do, but I know I have to do it to move on – hardest is to forgive the individual who effectively drove a great chasm between us. It is hard to stop feelings of hatred towards this person. Logically I know this negative emotion is only damaging myself, aand is no way touching the person towards whom it is being channelled, and I have to find a way to stop it. I am practising positive affirmations, going for long walks in the mountains and swimming in the river, which has the effect of taking my emotions and sweeping them downstream to the sea – very therapeutic short term strategy. I have two ‘sayings’ when I am at rock bottom….. ‘The only way is up’ and ‘I’m still standing’ Thank you for these articles. I hope many more people will read them.

]]> By: After Affair http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-121261 After Affair Mon, 14 Feb 2011 09:31:33 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-121261 Wow, your post was like reading a good book. lol Thanks for the great content. You provide great content that will help couples deal with the difficulties hidden in their path. Rich informative and very beneficial. Thank for the post, Pastor Vance Wow, your post was like reading a good book. lol Thanks for the great content. You provide great content that will help couples deal with the difficulties hidden in their path. Rich informative and very beneficial.

Thank for the post,

Pastor Vance

]]> By: julian M. http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-119816 julian M. Thu, 13 Jan 2011 07:07:09 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-119816 wow.... you dont know how all this just opened my mind... im a guy... im just soo suprised ... your an amazing person.... and im a guy with a wide mind set even towards life... and this .. just made me think about even more things... thanks.. i actually even have a couple questions to ask.... wow…. you dont know how all this just opened my mind… im a guy… im just soo suprised … your an amazing person…. and im a guy with a wide mind set even towards life… and this .. just made me think about even more things… thanks.. i actually even have a couple questions to ask….

]]> By: Srikanth D http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-118451 Srikanth D Fri, 17 Dec 2010 11:44:28 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-118451 Hi tina.. Really a veru useful article.. i have become a great fan of you now :-).. These techniques are working fine for me.. i feel i had a rebirth.. :-) Hi tina.. Really a veru useful article.. i have become a great fan of you now :-)..
These techniques are working fine for me.. i feel i had a rebirth.. :-)

]]> By: Pramod http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-115269 Pramod Tue, 24 Aug 2010 16:57:08 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-115269 Tina, wonderfully expressed, and I did not realize the things till date. From my early high school days, I had an opportunity to be friends with but at the end, I am cared, loved, and remembered by my classmates, however, never could continue long relationship. Hopefully, I can manage the relationship, however, gone down with the recent relationshiip, and reading your article, reminds me things that has to be done is to be done, though you don't have control over your relationship as another partner is involved in it, and it is not 1+1 equals to 1 (contrary to maths) but it is 1+1 equals to infinity of diversity you have grown with and learnt, but unity in diversity brings you to be 1+1 is equal to one, as meiosis makes crossing over through chiasmata formation to give diversity within the siblings though from same parents, but at the end parental love for kid is alwayas one, equal and devine. So, now I hsve learnt is that in diversity we can still have unity and it is forgiveness, compassion, resonation of partner"s feeling, and absolutely understanding other person thinking that you are flawed but not the other partner, if not the relation might not have soured if you would not have been a part of that sourness. So, understanding diversity within our unity, and accepting other's weakness as our own strength as we together can resolve each other's weakness but if we identify it then the problem will resonate and make both of us weaker than if we could have resolved with resolution of appreciating each other, we can be strong together, but not divided, and acceptance of our own differences and dislikes but able to tolerate other's weakness as the strength of our relation. Tina,
wonderfully expressed, and I did not realize the things till date. From my early high school days, I had an opportunity to be friends with but at the end, I am cared, loved, and remembered by my classmates, however, never could continue long relationship. Hopefully, I can manage the relationship, however, gone down with the recent relationshiip, and reading your article, reminds me things that has to be done is to be done, though you don’t have control over your relationship as another partner is involved in it, and it is not 1+1 equals to 1 (contrary to maths) but it is 1+1 equals to infinity of diversity you have grown with and learnt, but unity in diversity brings you to be 1+1 is equal to one, as meiosis makes crossing over through chiasmata formation to give diversity within the siblings though from same parents, but at the end parental love for kid is alwayas one, equal and devine. So, now I hsve learnt is that in diversity we can still have unity and it is forgiveness, compassion, resonation of partner”s feeling, and absolutely understanding other person thinking that you are flawed but not the other partner, if not the relation might not have soured if you would not have been a part of that sourness. So, understanding diversity within our unity, and accepting other’s weakness as our own strength as we together can resolve each other’s weakness but if we identify it then the problem will resonate and make both of us weaker than if we could have resolved with resolution of appreciating each other, we can be strong together, but not divided, and acceptance of our own differences and dislikes but able to tolerate other’s weakness as the strength of our relation.

]]> By: Top 10 Personal Growth Blogs to Inspire Action | Reading For Your Success http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/comment-page-2/#comment-114595 Top 10 Personal Growth Blogs to Inspire Action | Reading For Your Success Fri, 16 Jul 2010 20:33:31 +0000 http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-keep-a-relationship/#comment-114595 [...] of my all time favorite posts: How to Keep a Relationship (especially important for a guy getting married in five [...] [...] of my all time favorite posts: How to Keep a Relationship (especially important for a guy getting married in five [...]

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