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	<title>Comments on: How to Be Popular</title>
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		<title>By: Lola</title>
		<link>http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/the-popularity-factor/comment-page-2/#comment-124468</link>
		<dc:creator>Lola</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2011 18:57:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Some things this article says aren&#039;t right, I think. As hard as it may seem people like it when you are yourself, be true to yourself for once. When you are being fake, people can see right through it, they might not say anything but they are thinking it and they grow to hate and be nice, a lot of people do inconsiderate things by accident and get defensive when they are told, people see this as being quite rude and grow to think that you are naturally like that.

Don&#039;t forget that not everyone will like you, whether you are being yourself or someone who you aren&#039;t, but you will always, always, have friends beside you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some things this article says aren&#8217;t right, I think. As hard as it may seem people like it when you are yourself, be true to yourself for once. When you are being fake, people can see right through it, they might not say anything but they are thinking it and they grow to hate and be nice, a lot of people do inconsiderate things by accident and get defensive when they are told, people see this as being quite rude and grow to think that you are naturally like that.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t forget that not everyone will like you, whether you are being yourself or someone who you aren&#8217;t, but you will always, always, have friends beside you.</p>
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		<title>By: Polly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Polly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Dec 2010 21:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like the advices =)...
...But there&#039;s something bothering me...
Isn&#039;t this little deceitful? I mean that I know lot of people who hugs everyone(everyday too), smile widely, are very interested in others... But are they really? Do they really concern for you or they doing it just keep the facade? It&#039;s somehow too hypocritical from they&#039;re side.. If you don&#039;t like someone, something, just say it! I hate it when people try to be The Big one, when they actually are real cowards to say what they think just not to be thrown out of the society... Of course society is very important and there are things you should confirm, but the real thing is to be honest and be accepted for who you are(you seem very interested in the person&#039;s condition, but when sth bad happens with him, you actually don&#039;t give a damn except if it isn&#039;t associated with your popularity... real case, btw)  They seem like they care, but actually the don&#039;t... They say &quot;Happy Birthday&quot; to you even if they don&#039;t actually have the feelings(I mean in facebook for example you don&#039;t have to tell greetings but you&#039;re doing just to see others what good creature are you.. of course in real situation, when you meet, you have to tell greetings, obviously, i hope you understood^^) and it&#039;s all just to be popular and to look good in the eyes of others and to show &quot;how much you care for people&quot;... I want to be popular too, but I can&#039;t deceive people like that... Although I really do try to care for people... But for example I don&#039;t like touching others much and that&#039;s why I hug only when I haven&#039;t seen them in a long time and they&#039;ve really missed me... But hugging the same person everyday just to think that I&#039;m so happy to see him..? Yeah, there should be things like this, to show your love, true or fake... But I&#039;m sure that people know that&#039;s fake cause they do it too... And if you&#039;re close really with this person they know you appreciated them so you don&#039;t have to prove it in such showing way - if you care this must have already been confirmed when you have helped him with sth or such ... Around me people are like that, hypocritical.. so I have a little subjective point of view.. although I&#039;m sure they are really people who hug just because they feel like it.. ;]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the advices =)&#8230;<br />
&#8230;But there&#8217;s something bothering me&#8230;<br />
Isn&#8217;t this little deceitful? I mean that I know lot of people who hugs everyone(everyday too), smile widely, are very interested in others&#8230; But are they really? Do they really concern for you or they doing it just keep the facade? It&#8217;s somehow too hypocritical from they&#8217;re side.. If you don&#8217;t like someone, something, just say it! I hate it when people try to be The Big one, when they actually are real cowards to say what they think just not to be thrown out of the society&#8230; Of course society is very important and there are things you should confirm, but the real thing is to be honest and be accepted for who you are(you seem very interested in the person&#8217;s condition, but when sth bad happens with him, you actually don&#8217;t give a damn except if it isn&#8217;t associated with your popularity&#8230; real case, btw)  They seem like they care, but actually the don&#8217;t&#8230; They say &#8220;Happy Birthday&#8221; to you even if they don&#8217;t actually have the feelings(I mean in facebook for example you don&#8217;t have to tell greetings but you&#8217;re doing just to see others what good creature are you.. of course in real situation, when you meet, you have to tell greetings, obviously, i hope you understood^^) and it&#8217;s all just to be popular and to look good in the eyes of others and to show &#8220;how much you care for people&#8221;&#8230; I want to be popular too, but I can&#8217;t deceive people like that&#8230; Although I really do try to care for people&#8230; But for example I don&#8217;t like touching others much and that&#8217;s why I hug only when I haven&#8217;t seen them in a long time and they&#8217;ve really missed me&#8230; But hugging the same person everyday just to think that I&#8217;m so happy to see him..? Yeah, there should be things like this, to show your love, true or fake&#8230; But I&#8217;m sure that people know that&#8217;s fake cause they do it too&#8230; And if you&#8217;re close really with this person they know you appreciated them so you don&#8217;t have to prove it in such showing way &#8211; if you care this must have already been confirmed when you have helped him with sth or such &#8230; Around me people are like that, hypocritical.. so I have a little subjective point of view.. although I&#8217;m sure they are really people who hug just because they feel like it.. ;]</p>
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		<title>By: schoolgirl96</title>
		<link>http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/the-popularity-factor/comment-page-2/#comment-115892</link>
		<dc:creator>schoolgirl96</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 21:51:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i liked this article as i have a friend who is v.mea smetimes and it really upsets me i will try these skills on hr and i hope they will help ... :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i liked this article as i have a friend who is v.mea smetimes and it really upsets me i will try these skills on hr and i hope they will help &#8230; :)</p>
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		<title>By: Marko V.</title>
		<link>http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/the-popularity-factor/comment-page-2/#comment-120420</link>
		<dc:creator>Marko V.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 11:51:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;The Popularity Factor &#124; Think Simple Now &amp; The Popularity Factor http://su.pr/1vvBxr&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">The Popularity Factor | Think Simple Now &amp; The Popularity Factor <a href="http://su.pr/1vvBxr" rel="nofollow">http://su.pr/1vvBxr</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Trip Allen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Trip Allen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 18:51:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;The Popularity Factor in Relationships- Spot on. http://bit.ly/sNrSN http://bit.ly/5bBad6&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">The Popularity Factor in Relationships- Spot on. <a href="http://bit.ly/sNrSN" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/sNrSN</a> <a href="http://bit.ly/5bBad6" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/5bBad6</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Sterling Whitehead</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sterling Whitehead</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 00:43:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;In the workplace...people are usually bias towards people they like, not...towards people who are better at their jobs. http://bit.ly/sNrSN&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">In the workplace&#8230;people are usually bias towards people they like, not&#8230;towards people who are better at their jobs. <a href="http://bit.ly/sNrSN" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/sNrSN</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gretchen Bostrom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gretchen Bostrom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2009 15:40:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Why Should We Care About Being Liked? Interesting post: http://ow.ly/Q20d (via &lt;a href=&quot;http://topsy.com/twitter/inSocialMedia&quot;&gt;@inSocialMedia&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Why Should We Care About Being Liked? Interesting post: <a href="http://ow.ly/Q20d" rel="nofollow">http://ow.ly/Q20d</a> (via <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/inSocialMedia">@inSocialMedia</a>)</span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Taylor Marek</title>
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		<dc:creator>Taylor Marek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2009 11:14:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;RT &lt;a href=&quot;http://topsy.com/twitter/PhilGerb&quot;&gt;@PhilGerb&lt;/a&gt;: Interesting RT &lt;a href=&quot;http://topsy.com/twitter/inSocialMedia&quot;&gt;@inSocialMedia&lt;/a&gt;: Why Should We Care About Being Liked? Interesting post: http://ow.ly/Q20d&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/PhilGerb">@PhilGerb</a>: Interesting RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/inSocialMedia">@inSocialMedia</a>: Why Should We Care About Being Liked? Interesting post: <a href="http://ow.ly/Q20d" rel="nofollow">http://ow.ly/Q20d</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Phil Gerbyshak</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil Gerbyshak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2009 11:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Interesting RT &lt;a href=&quot;http://topsy.com/twitter/inSocialMedia&quot;&gt;@inSocialMedia&lt;/a&gt;: Why Should We Care About Being Liked? Interesting post: http://ow.ly/Q20d&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Interesting RT <a href="http://topsy.com/twitter/inSocialMedia">@inSocialMedia</a>: Why Should We Care About Being Liked? Interesting post: <a href="http://ow.ly/Q20d" rel="nofollow">http://ow.ly/Q20d</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Chris Patterson</title>
		<link>http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/the-popularity-factor/comment-page-2/#comment-120429</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Patterson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2009 10:58:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Why Should We Care About Being Liked? Interesting post: http://ow.ly/Q20d&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Why Should We Care About Being Liked? Interesting post: <a href="http://ow.ly/Q20d" rel="nofollow">http://ow.ly/Q20d</a></span></span></span></p>
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