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About Tina

“Success in life is most easily measured
by the number of days you are truly happy.”

Tina Su

Hello, my name is Tina Su. I am 30, a mom, wife and the CHO (Chief Happiness Officer) here at Think Simple Now.

Think Simple Now was created in late 2007 as part of my personal mission at the time to bring more fulfillment and happiness to the lives of others.

Over the past few years, through this site, I was able to explore various issues in my personal life, which have allowed me to grow tremendously on my own path to self-leadership and personal mastery.

In 2007 and prior, I was a confused, over-worked, ambitious but tired success chaser. I was obsessed with the concepts of motivation, financial freedom and anything on self-improvement. I attended numerous seminars, read countless books, started businesses, and put many of the learned success principles into practice.

So, what happened?

Well, they worked. I was able to “achieve” external goals set in every area of my life. But I was exhausted. I was a proud workaholic – working a combined 60-80 hour week between my various businesses and jobs. Despite achieving the external label of success that society has taught us, I felt like a failure; I was deeply unhappy.

I had learned that as I gained more monetary and material wealth, I did not gain more fulfillment or joy. Instead, I was always left with wanting more, continuously trying to fill that inner void.

Turns out, I was looking in the wrong place. It was only after I turned and journeyed within, that I had a taste of true fulfillment and bliss. Thus, I began to explore the possibilities of human potential, and to better understand what makes us Happy.

In 2008, I retired from my engineering and design career, to focus on my passions and to pursue my inner calling. I have vowed to “never work again”, and am committed to doing only things in alignment with my passions and my personal mission.

“Never Work Again” Explained

“Never work again” is a misunderstood concept in our society. It does not mean, do nothing and waste time. It means to live every single day fully, to live meaningfully, to work on projects that you can’t wait to get your hands on, to express your creativity and as a result, to contribute a significant amount of value to the world.

A good gauge I use when deciding which projects to work on, is to ask the question, “If I had all the money and resources in the world, what would I be working on?” And then I continue to work on it with faith, vision and focused action. I do not waste any time in second-guessing myself, or filling my inner-space with fear of failure.

I often hear people complain about not having enough time, or saying “I wish I could do that, but I need to make a living first.”

From what I’ve seen, when you are able to provide significant value to the world, the world will reward you and take care of your needs. That’s how the Universe works.

The switch to a “never work again” lifestyle takes courage and a shift in thinking because change is scary, and the unknown triggers fear.

Once you get over the fear curb, and dive into your passion, you will fall in love again – not with a person, but with what you do. You will gain so much satisfaction and fulfillment from what you do, that you would do it regardless of whether you were getting paid or not.

And somewhere in the process, you will generate so much value out of an overflowing love for what you do, that money becomes a byproduct of you expressing your passion.

Me, Today

In contrast to the workaholic I once was not too long ago, I now spend 20 hours a week in my home “office”. I get to stay home with my son, while doing meaningful work that makes my heart sing.

Each day is filled with exciting possibilities, a chance to bask in the glow of the creative flow. I jump out of bed every morning, looking forward to my day.

I spend a few hours everyday feeding my soul and learning about the inner science that I’ve come to love: meditation, yoga, ancient philosophies, contemplation and lots of inspirational reading.

Like a newborn baby, I feel alive and free.

I feel rich from the inside out, and am very much in love with life.

Through the articles on Think Simple Now, I hope to share more of what I’ve learned with you.

It’s true, what Confucius said,
Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.”

The moral of the story: It’s never too late to take control of the steering wheel of your life. Let’s start today, together.

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Random Personal Facts:

* I live with my son, husband and two fluffy dogs in Seattle.
* I was born and raised in Beijing, China. I spend my teens in Toronto, Canada.
* I am a fine-art portrait photographer for musicians and authors.
* I am also a Seattle wedding photographer.
* I was a child actor and model.
* I love books. My recommendations, reading list, and wishlist.
* I am a certified Yoga instructor, but have never actually taught.
* I collect inspirational quotes, you can see them at Empowered Quotes
* I like vanilla ice-cream and red wine (not together).
* I consume an enormous amount of Salad, and am in love with avocados.
* I am a geek at heart.

If you need to get in touch, contact me here.

Last revised on 09/13/2010

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Comments

  1. 1

    Hello Tina,

    I like your cheerful spirit. Your blog is also cool :D You go gal!

    Gamy

  2. 2

    You seem to ellicit a lot of comments.
    If you were forced to give one reason for this, what would you suppose it would be?
    Your ability to get comments is probably the single most stand out thing about your blog in its infancy.

  3. 3

    I would like to see (as I pass Honest Abe) an entry on calendaring.
    I recently took on a business coach, and the general meeting I had just before I joined was on calendaring. So, I missed that little gem. And, I sorely need it.

  4. 4

    Hey Todd, :)

    If I were to give just one reason?
    “I receive in direct proportion to what I give out” :) I hope that makes sense. If you want something, just give that thing out to people.. and you will see that it will come back to you in some form above your expectations. The universe is beautiful like that…

    I’ve learned this lesson from several teachers, and it’s served me well in many areas of life. If you want more money in your life, give it away… donate a portion of your income. If you want more love, give it away and you shall see more returned back to you. Same thing with comments. :)

    Hope that satisfied your curiosity.

    I am also very blessed and grateful for all the supports from my guests. It’s been a great month, and very encouraging for my mission. Thanks for commenting Todd.

  5. 5

    Dear Tina,
    I am happy that I found you & checked your Blogs.I found them all amazing.
    I thank you deeply & immensely for showing me the path to success & pure happiness

  6. 6

    Wow, Tina! I just found you online and I have to say, I’m overwhelmed. We’re roughly the same age and I find myself getting incredibly excited by your energy and your positive outlook. I think finding you and your blog will end up being a poweful tool for me. Thank you in advance…I’m sure I’ll learn a lot here :)

  7. 7

    Hi Tina,
    Wow, out of your 8 teachers, I follow 5 of them.Anthony Robbins tops my list.As for Dan Millman,have you read his book on “the life you were born to live?”.It is actually a numerology book.Very accurate too.
    Take care,
    Philip

  8. 8

    Hello Tina,
    I stumbled upon your site through “Meditation for Beginners”. I am impressed that your site has so many rich contents and powerful statements – I could learn a lot from you! I’ll keep checking back. Thanks for the great site, Tina.
    -Coko

  9. 9

    One of my favorite words is simple. When I the word “Simple” dispersed all over your page, I got curious and read most of the stuff. Great work Tina.

  10. 10

    This seems like a very insightful blog. I have added you to my blogroll.

  11. 11

    You are doing something very powerful and valuable here as well. Thanks!

  12. 12

    Tina,

    I’ve had a great time exploring and reading your posts!

    Suzanne

  13. 13

    I enjoyed reading your posts. In the midst of rushing through life I think it is important to stop and think every now and then… Just like you do. Thanks for reminding us :-)

  14. 14

    Hi Tina! I love your blog, it’s so positive. :)

  15. 15

    Tina, your posts have inspired me to get back into my graphic design and photography and spruce it up!

    Thanks for the inspiration! I’ve added your blog to my RSS feeds.

    -Chris McCorkle
    chrismccorkle.com

  16. Mantissa Cramer

    16

    Tina,

    I stumbled into your blog today and as a serial entrepreneur I can relate and appreciate a lot of what you have to say. In our day to day insanity it is extremely easy to lose site of the bigger picture as well as ourselves.

    Keep it coming!

    Thanks,
    Mantissa

  17. 17

    Hey Tina,

    I am here through your StumbleUpon profile. Great blog! I’ll be recommending it to others.

    Maya Norton

    The New Jew: Blogging Jewish Philanthropy

  18. 18

    Hi Tina,
    it’s amazing how much you have done in so little time. Congratulations! This blog is a great contribution to all of us. Thank you.

    I saw “7 Habits of Highly Innovative People” on del.icio.us and that’ was enough… Now your one of my most important sources to read in Google Reader :-)

    A big hug from Chile!

  19. 19

    Hey Tina, I saw that you use “We” and “Us”. Who are the other people running/contributing to this site?

  20. 20

    Hi SJ Yee (Personal Development for the Book Smart),

    My life partner Adam is my Editor. I’ve also been blessed with great friends who helps me out with proofreading and such. I plan to bring on additional writers and contributors in the future to fulfill the vision and purpose for this site. Great question! Thanks. :)

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    @oneminuteman: I love the word Simple as well. I’m striving to have simplicity in every area of my life. I’ve found joy in simplicity (accidentally) and it stuck with me. :)

    @Suzanne, @Rhonalala: Thanks for such nice words. I appreciate it. :)

    @Mantissa: I hear what you’re saying. I too fall into the trap at times, and have worked very hard to keep myself out. It’s challenging work . :) I’m sure you can relate. I’ve found it especially challenging for entrepreneurs, since leading a business requires that you have a clear vision of the future, and so you end up living in the future most of the time. I’ve found this particularly challenging to balance out.. between future and the now. :) Thanks for the comment. It made me think and served as a reminder for myself to stay present.

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    @Gamy: Thank you girl! I love what you are doing with your blog as well! Keep up the great work!

    @ToddSchafer: Good idea, I’ll add that to the list of potential topics. Though, I’m thinking about shifting the focus of this blog into a more narrowed focus on happiness and various emotions around that. Since there are many wonderful blogs out there speaking about productivity, I don’t want to spend too much time talking about the same thing many other sites are doing. My goal here is to provide value in my own unique way. :)

    @Sharad: You are too sweet! Thank you for making me smile with your words. :) I wish you success and happiness. Come back soon and let us know how you are doing on your journey to happiness and contentment? :) Cheers!

    @Chrissy S: Thanks for the comment and such nice compliments. :) I loved your site and the value you are providing for your readers. Your tumblr links are also fantastic, with very useful and practical content. Thank you for sharing!

    @Philip Ang: No I haven’t read “the life you were born to live?” yet. I can’t wait after hearing your review of it. :)
    Have you head his first book? “Ways of the peaceful warrior”? It’s fantastic. I love how he mixes in these lessons in a easy to read story. What are your other teachers (others that are not on my list)? Keep in touch! :)

    @Coko Johnson – Hi! Thank you for the thoughtful comment and encouraging compliment. This site has been a labour of love and I’ve spent much time on trying to create quality content. Please send feedbacks my way should you have any. Thanks for reading!

    @Tiffany Monhollon: That was my hope and focus when the site started. Thank you for confirming that. :)

    @Steen Olsen: I appreciate the thoughtful comment Steen. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.

    @Trula: Thank you Trula! I appreciate it! :)

    @Chris McCorkle: Wow Chris, reading what you wrote made me smile and feel suddenly very warm and fuzzy inside. :) I love your photography work. Keep up being excellent! I look forward in seeing new work from you. Keep in touch!

    @Maya Norton: Thanks for stopping by!

    @Ignacio Silva: Awww.. that’s so sweet! Thank you! Your words of encouragement is very supportive and helps me very much in working hard to create valuable content. Do not hesitate to let me know should you have any feedbacks on what you liked and what you thought needs improvement. :)

    Have a beautiful day Ignacio! Hugs from (sleepless in) Seattle. :)

  23. 23

    Hi Tina,

    Just discovered your site and I’m finding it very inspiring and good food for thought. Thanks for taking the time to put this site online.

  24. 24

    Tina,

    Your site is great! It’s exactly what I needed to stumble upon. Thanks for being…yourself. :-)

  25. 25

    Hello Tina,

    Congratulation to your wonderful website. It’s refreshing and inspiring…

    Cheers

    Thomas Herold
    CEO Dream Manifesto

  26. 26

    Hi Tina!
    You are doing a great job… I am sure it is truly transmitting the messages to everyone who reads this blog… keep it up!

    Nice too meet you by the way….
    Amai

  27. 27

    Tina,
    In the past year, your site is truly one of my new favorites.

    Corey

  28. 28

    Great job making a fantastic website, I hope you enjoy writing these articles as much I do reading them.

  29. 29

    Hi Tina,

    I stumbled upon your blog today and I am really glad that I did. Your writing is not only brilliant, but it provides an insight that is sadly lacking in most online work. I will definetly be subscribing, and look forward to everything you can put forth.

    Russ

  30. 30

    Tina,

    I must say that I followed your link from Think Banc because I really liked a comment you left on one of the posts.

    Wow, what a world following your link led me to!

    Your site is yummy if I had to sum it all up in one word!!!!–lol!

    It FEELS really great to be here.

    Congrats on all that you’re inspired to do. Thanks so much for sharing your value with us. It’s really nice to connect with like-spirited people.

    Finally, I just have to say that Tommy is just absolutely adorable! I saw a picture of him playing with the same plush toy that my one year old Yorkie named Yogi has. Tommy is soooooooooo CUTE!!!!

    Thanks for being genuine.

    Lots of love!

    Hugs,
    Megan
    http://www.TheLawofAttractionStation.com

  31. 31

    Tina, I stumbled upon you site this morning and all I can say is WOW … you can write!

    Keep up the good work.

    And if you are ever looking for a gig, I’d love to have you.

    -Joe

  32. 32

    Since I posted in late October about your “comment generating abilities”, I noticed your subscription list has increased exponentially.
    It appears you have reached critical mass.
    I believe in you and what you do.
    Congratulations on your fine achievement.

  33. 33

    Hi Tina,

    Great site, and I am very impressed with how you can also be part of all the web communities such as mybloglog, linkedin, digg, stumbleupon et. al.

    Just how do you find time to do it all? ;)

    Just on a small note, am following on most of them!

    Warm Regards and keep doing what you do!
    dt

  34. 34

    Wow, there is so much positive motivational energy here Tina, great blog! I have enjoyed reading through your entries and I feel very inspired to rise up to the next level of my potential. Keep up the great work!

  35. 35

    Just stumbled across your website and saw the Tony Tobbins tagline. Which didn’t seem to fit with your latest article on the simple life and the life wealth v material wealth sort of thing. I saw Tony Robbins many years ago and whilst he was a powerful speaker he ‘turned me off’ terribly. He couldn’t stop talking about his helicopters/houses etc. Which we could all have if we turned our lives around according to him. He had also apparently turned from ‘slob’ to near Olympic Athlete. A complete yawnfest frankly. Not a criticism of your site. I liked the posts-just didn’t fanct Tony Robbins much….lol

    ******************

    REPLY

    Hi h.bosch,

    Thanks for commenting. I appreciate your perspective. I hear what you’re saying, I do not agree with many things that Tony says, but you have to admit that there are parts of his teachings that are uplifting and can bring positive contributions to people. And sometimes, if a person is not at a stage to completely understand the meaning behind “A Simple Life”, but can relate with Tony’s examples of material wealth, then that might be a good entry point for that person into a path of self-discovery and self-mastery. Once they get to a certain stage, they’ll come to understand that true happiness cannot arise from material wealth and stuff. This was the path that I took and brought me to where I am today. And once I got here, I decided not to take Tony’s full training courses, and to look towards the more spiritual path instead. For this reason, I am still grateful for what I was able to gain from Tony’s teachings.

    Warmly,
    Tina

  36. 36

    great site. I am your reader from Beijing, China :)

  37. 37

    Originally from Beijing, China.

    Oh, I thought that you looks like Chinese :)

    Great site and great author! If you read Chinese, please pay a visit to my Chinese blog (with PR6 and 5000IP+/day) , I think we can have some cooperations.:)

    My Chinese blog: http://www.awflasher.com/blog/ (focus on something common)

  38. 38

    Hi, Got your mail, but is that an auto-reply one? I have already dugg your latest post on the FP of digg.com and subscribed your rss at my Netvibes :)

  39. 39

    This is the first time I come here.Good site. You don’t look like an American. Are you from Asia?

  40. 40

    Just read your guest post on pro-blogger – excellent article and your approach is basically a business plan for new bloggers. I’ve been blogging on and off for a few months with varied results, but will now use some of your tips to set goals and content.

    One thing to add which I believe is important is ones blog layout. Simple and well laid out blogs (with minimal advertising) like yours are important to attract readers. I am still trying to figure out the optimal layout given my limited web skills.

    Balancing content, revenue and the reader experience is the triple constraint I am constantly battling. Looks like you have it solved.

    Cheers,
    Andy
    http://www.financeviewpoint.com

  41. 41

    It’s Jamie Cullum, not ‘Cullums’ :)

  42. 42

    Hi I just wanted to say congrats on having your article posted on Problogger.net!!! I have been a reader of theirs for awhile and was searching Problogger for ways to increase traffic to my blog when I came across your article… “From 0 to 2000+ Subscribers in 90 Days”. I really enjoyed it as I have just started my blog and thought you had some wonderful ideas.

    So again I just want to say thank you for the inspiration.

    Canadiancarguy

  43. 43

    Hi There,

    As the rest of them I saw your blog from Problogger.net and congrats been posted there… I have one suggestion for you if you want to increase your traffic even more just install mybloglog to your blog and start a community on your blog =)

    That will help to increase your traffic to, I know it works because it help turn my blog from 50 hits to 100 hits a days just by installing it =)

  44. 44

    Hi Tina,

    I also came over from Problogger today. I can testify to clarifying content and goals. I did something new with my blog that increased traffic and blew my original goals. I found what my readers are looking for and try to create a fun experience for them EACH TIME they come to my site. I have a “song of the day” that may be funny or motivational that actually goes with each post. I give one simple idea for creating “Sanctuary” in their personal spaces each day and try and make it so my readers can get up out of their chair and accomplish something meaningful (however small) every day.

    Now, I just have to work on Step 3….getting the word out, and you’ve given some really great, concrete advice. I’m excited about putting it into action. I’ve never tried Digg OR Stumbleupon, thinking that these venues might not work for my audience. Hmmmm. Re-thinking that! I want to thank you for the excellent article! I’ll be back for more.

  45. 45

    OMG….I added you to a ton of places. ;)

  46. 46

    Hi, came here from the Make Money Blog. I can sense yr positive energy. I love being simple too. Nice to meet you.

  47. 47

    Hi, Tina. I so admire how you manifest your desires and goals. I’m still working things out for me. I’m finding myself a slow learner (hehe), but I’m looking forward to getting there. I’m also inspired by how serene you are, I sense it in your writing.

    More power to you!

  48. 48

    Wow Tina I’ve just recently found your blog but im already astounded. I’ve read your article on Blog promotion and I am genuinely impressed. You’ve given us regular people with blogging goals hope. I’ve just started a blog here: http://escapingmaryland.blogspot.com/

    I hope you’ll check it out and give me some tips.

    Justus
    Justusunlimited@yahoo.com
    http://escapingmaryland.blogspot.com/

  49. 49

    Tina,
    I just got done reading your article on problogger.com (how you went from 0 to 2000 subscriber in 90 days) and i was amazed of how you did it. I started my blog about 13 months ago and haven’t been so succesful attracting traffic to it. I’m still doing the blogcarnival one and still battling everyday on attracting subscribers and traffic. There are some good weeks and then there are the bad weeks, up and down traffic but when it is down it is really down. Well as i mentioned before in one of your posts i will without a doubt come back and read up some more of your posts.

    Jose,
    http://avilesnews.blogspot.com

  50. 50

    You’re good. I said so at problogger too. Very adept at applying what you’ve learned, but not so that it’s disingenuous. I would be surprised if those who you’ve learned from don’t contact you to show their support publicly, if they haven’t already. Very good.

    I’ve got questions for ya, but they’re technical-like. I want to figure out how to include you naturally in a post of mine. You’ll fit right in, I know. Maybe you’ll become a reader, who knows.

    Peace.

  51. 51

    Hi Tina!

    Thank you so much for the great article on ProBlogger!

    That really makes my job of attaining my goal of getting 10,000 subscribers by 2009 a breeze for my one month old blog!

    I really can feel the overbrimming positive energy and love from your posts!

    Thank you so much again! =)

    And Tina, if you ever need any videos for your website to make your subscribers experience a more enriching one, you know who to call.. ;)

    SaiF
    The World’s First Teen
    Personal Development Video Blogger

  52. 52

    Hi Tina,
    No problem on mentioning your post at my blog. I found it quite interesting and soothing to know that I wasn’t the only one put off by the effects of TV watching.

    And, oh, I still don’t have a TV, although I am beginning to miss renting movies. :)

    If you’ve become a regular reader of mine, let me know what you think.

    Oh, have fun while in India.

    Regards,
    YellowBirdMan
    IT Jobs For The Career Builder

  53. 53

    Great blog Tina. I wonder would you mind if I added it to my blog roll? My Blog

    It is a Christian blog about my life and it’s struggles in Christianity. Thanks and God Bless.

  54. 54

    Hi Tina,

    I just wanted to say how much I enjoy your contribution. It’s not only what you say but also the fact that you radiate the essence of your message. Your whole persona makes me smile. You are a tribute to everyone deeply interested in personal growth and development.

    Thanks for giving so much,
    Jonathan Wells

  55. 55

    Yo!! Rock steady kiddo – this site is spot on. Glad to have found it. Can’t wait to really dive into. Good things for sure.

    Best,

    stephen

  56. 56

    Tina,

    Congratulations on your upbeat and meaningful blog.

    Your blog may be new but your background makes it clear that you’re no stranger to cyberspace or successful business operation.

    I plan to subscribe so I can keep up with your posts, especially while you’re traveling in India.

  57. 57

    Hi Tina. What wonderful advice you gave in an article that Coutorture presented on their message board. Now I need to put your suggestions to work. Thanks, Beckie

  58. 58

    Great work!!!
    I really liked your blog and the style you keep.
    I started my blog almost 2 months ago or so…but I need a looot to develop still.
    take care

  59. 59

    Tina,

    Thank you for everything! May those who are nearest to you be constantly enriched by the beauty and the bounty of your love, may your work be a joy of your life that serves the world, and may your days be good and long upon the Earth.

  60. ghalia orabi

    60

    hi Tina
    i am ghalia from syria, 31, female .
    i enjoyed your blogs too much,its very useful.
    thanks for everythings ,i tried to prctise your advice in my real life.
    best wishes.
    ghalia

  61. 61

    Hi,
    If you come to chennai, contact me for sure.

    Have a nice trip to Hindia.

    Susi

  62. 62

    Hi Tina,

    First off, thank you. You’re site is so right on. I was first turned on to it by a good friend a few weeks back and I cannot get enough. I have been forwarding your articles all over the place! Please keep them coming. I have been a long time student of Tony Robbins, Stephen Covey, Dale Carnegie, Tim Ferris and a lot of the others whom seem to have inspired you. If you have a minute, take a look at the link to my book reviews and recommendations website, Reading For Your Success. You may enjoy some of the pieces.

    I look forward to what’s to come.

    Thanks!
    Scott

  63. 63

    Hi Tina,

    Great work with TSN. Just glossing over the comments accumulated so far, it’s obvious how much good you’ve done for people.

    It’s also wonderful to find voices online that possess a compelling drive for a healthy, and happy lifestyle through personal passions and lifehacks.

    I’m looking forward to your future posts and reading up on your previous entries for inspiration. In the meantime, I would like to propose an opportunity to meet over coffee sometime to learn more about how you’ve come to where you are in life.

    Please feel free to email if this interests you. Looking forward to hear from you.

    Cheers,
    Kevin

  64. 64

    Wow, what a ‘power-frau’ you are Tina!
    just checked out your website, and you have some amazing work there! Your Spirit really shines in your work. Congratulations on manifesting so much Bliss in your life. :)

  65. 65

    Thank you for your imparting wisdom, Tina. I love reading it when I need to wind down. Taking deep breaths, I find ways to think simple through your influential and inspiring articles. Keep doing what you’re doing!

    Jeff

  66. 66

    Hi,Tina

    I come here by accident and I find this site is pretty useful and cool!
    And I visited your travel blog, it is nice too.

    I am from China, welcome to China(I see you have not any article about China) and see our world’s Olympic!

  67. 67

    Hi Tina,

    Your site and positive spirit is a breath of fresh air. I think that there is probably a lot more to you than simple words can express.
    Keep up your great efforts and may the rewards come to you.

    Mark

  68. 68

    Hello Tina!
    Lovely to read your website and your life’s philosophy. I became your fan the moment i saw one of my favourite books appearing in your list as well…
    Do visit my blog and leave your comments.
    Three cheers!
    Z
    Senior Journalist, Bangalore, India
    P.S: The book is “Creative Visualisation”

  69. 69

    hi! tina, can you please have an article on how to deal with manipulated people. for example, if someone is asking you for something that you have put a lot of time and effort in , and you do not want to give up the information, what do you say or do. if i give up by being manipulated, then i will get so upset at myself and them. if i told them “no”, then they are being sarcastic and not being nice. for instance, how do you tell someone to go do or get it themselves and do not come to you for a free ride or take advantage of you. i do not like to be used and i am very good at reading people who is manipulated but just do not know how to deal with them. thanks in advance and sorry for my bad writing, i am not very good at writing but i will try. you are beautiful and i love the way you write. bye for now.

    *********************
    REPLY

    Thanks for the article suggestion Justine. I will look into this topic. :)

    Warmly,
    Tina

  70. 70

    I randomly came across your blog site through Digg.com. What a treat! Thanks for passing on the wisdom! You rock. Oh, SICK photos by the way. I want to go to Nepal!

  71. 71

    Hi Tina,

    The comments are as wonderful as your words. Thanks for leaving some “crumbs” for people to follow…toward their own success.

    “Hansel”

  72. 72

    Hi Tina,

    I stumbled across your blog from one of your comments on Zen Habits. Wow, what can I say…. great blog! Consider me subscribed.

  73. 73

    Hello Trina,

    Your blog is a refreshing read. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and ideas.

    Will be frequently here from now on.
    Take care!

  74. 74

    This is my first time visit and I fall in love with your blog. Surely you are enlightening me. I will keep come here to learn a large from you.

    Regards

  75. 75

    No only are you hot you are happy too! Hot and happy! YUMM!

  76. 76

    Thank you.

  77. 77

    Bonjour Tina,

    I am impressed by your professionalism and the clean design of your sites. Really amazing. Hope the best for your continuation.

    Sincerely

  78. 78

    Tina,

    Nice site.

    It’s been almost a year now since I quit my job and started traveling. The plan was to live on passive income along the way to where I would at least break even. After thousands of miles covered and living out of a backpack I’m in the red, but finding sights like yours is always inspiring.

  79. Untung Wibowo

    79

    Hi Tina, I like your blog. It is simple, yet filled with many thing to learn. Thanks for sharing your life and hope the best for you.

    Regards,

    Untung.

  80. 80

    Hi Tina,

    It is amazing to meet you – someone choosing a path similar to what I did in 2000 (when I left a high paying job at EMC to start AspireNow). I luv luv luv your energy and think you will do well with this site. May I invite you to connect with me, too?

    Cheers!
    Scott

  81. 81

    Hi Tina,

    I am very proud of you!

    Barry

  82. 82

    Hi Tina,

    Great job on the blog. I was ondering by any chance did you go to Riverdale Collegiate Institute in Toronto. If you did I remember you from highschool.

    Keep up the good work, Tina.

    **********************
    REPLY

    Hi Tosin,

    I did go to Riverdale for high school. :)

  83. 83

    I love all the synchronicities. :) Your site really touches people, and I think your writing is spot on. You’re such an inspiration to so many of us, and I know we will continue to follow you in your adventures for a very long time!

    Lots of love,
    Nathalie

  84. 84

    Just found your site today, and I’m so happy about it!

    Much love.

  85. 85

    Stumbled on to your site looking for short pointers on a skill I’d like to develop more. Ending up falling in love with you (I know that’s really presumptious but this happens). Your “person” affects people deeply – and we who read you, find you simply, “Wonderful.”

    Thank you! And please continue doing what you are doing!

  86. 86

    I really enjoy your site! Keep up the good work.

  87. 87

    Hi Tina: I was in the process of writing something about simplicity in life for someone. I stumbled upon this blog. Wonderful. You crystallise the idea of simple life so well. I have gone thru 55 years of life up to now living simple because of where and when I grew up. I have gone thru things in life many people around here won’t even imagine of. This is a typical Asian “go getting” society. People here just like everyone all over the world are just so caught up with going after material achievement in life 24/7.

    I love simple life. I sleep on bare floor. Run marathons barefoot. Wear minimal because this is in the tropic. I find being athletic is also part of my simple life. I am active since young. In last 10 years, I stopped all ball games and focussed on the simplest sports…swim, bike and run. I run few marathons in a year. Done 3 Ironman triathlons. Done ‘Marathon Des Sables” in the Sahara Desert. I am still working. Of course people around look at me and say I can live like this because I am not ordinary. It is not doable by others. I keep telling them from my life experience given by God that I am actually the ordinary one. A simple person enjoying his life. Whereas people all over nowadays find it extremely difficult to be ordinary and simple. They can’t pause and think about life. Everyone rushes along like the rats and children following the Pied Piper of Hamelin.

    Keep going Tina.

  88. 88

    Hi, just stubled to your site and been stuck here for two hours. This is so interesting and well written material.

    I´m going to be reading this on a daily basis for the next days.

    Thanks.

  89. 89

    Just stumbled upon this splendid site of beautifully crafted thoughts. Gone through few posts and am really inspired. Will read all of them as soon as I get the time.

    Keep up the good work.

  90. 90

    Your story is inspirational to me.. Like reading your blog .. Best. Kasia

  91. 91

    Hi Tina!

    I don’t know were to began… you’re amazing!
    I love what you have done in a little time… I love to write as well and I always had this crazy ideas about me saving the world some how… but i didn’t thought I could be done, til today… You’re doing what I always dream of doing… (Don’t take it wrong!) I’m very proud of you! honestly, I am….

    It’s grate how you help people with your articles…. I was wondering… could you help me?
    I think I’m lost, you see… I don’t really care if I’ll die today…. i know that I have to change this dark thoughts, but I just don’t know how…

    I know that we dont really know each other… but I don’t know what else to do…
    Sorry if I’m bothering you with my personla problems… I mean, you dont have to hear this, nobody does…

  92. vanitha shankar

    92

    hi Tina.

    Hope u remember me?? we met when u were doing your LBE…….

    was going thru your blog.and i am really impressed!!!!!!i have asked a few friends to visit your blog too……..lovely work….i am back home and will be going back to bidadi in about 10 days ……i am just going to be open n let Him do his work.will give u a feed back…….meanwhile.all the best !!!!
    in nithanandam

  93. 93

    Hi Tina,
    I am happy that I see your web when I am confused of my life. I will read your works and see if I could find my own life answer.

  94. 94

    I love reading success stories like yours. My belief has always been to do something because it makes you happy, not because its something that you think will make you happy. I work 50 hours a week running my search marketing company, but i would love for my personal development blog on dating to be a hit. I make a small sum from it, but I absolutly love working on it.

  95. 95

    Hi Tina. How are you today? Hope you are well.

    I stumbled across your site when I was searching for articles on email writing. and surprisingly one link leads to another and another on your site. And those personal growth articles just hit me – especially on ‘How to End Suffering’ (well, I’ve only read a few). It is not easy to go through the process, document and share it with the world to be heard, and then ignore the judgment. To let others see your deepest fear and shame, to find words to describe them, to wake up from denial and acknowledge them, then learn from the event. It needs courage. Thank you for sharing.

    p/s: Will go home and read more *wink*

    Thanks.
    -kruy

  96. 96

    That track reminds me of another track which I very much liked . can’t remember which one is it :\ does anybody happens to know what artist I am talking about?

  97. 97

    I am verymuch impressed with your blog and the word CHO (Cheif Happiness Officer) is the master piece. Employers always want their employees should be professional, knowledgable and professional. But who thinks about the Happiness of Employees ?

  98. 98

    Hi Tina,

    I planned on logging off about an hour ago, but reading your posts made me lose track of time :)

    It’s inspiring to know someone like you who felt lost in the corporate world, realized her purpose in life, and is now realizing her dream.

    Feeling tired of the everyday senseless grind, I, too, quit my job. I’m now working as a freelance writer.

    Although I don’t have a clear vision yet of what I want to do, I’m working on finding myself everyday. I hope that I’ll also be able to tell my story to the world someday and motivate people to live their lives to the fullest, just as you do.

    Good luck to your future endeavors :)

  99. 99

    Dear Tina:

    Your website has a high quality content and very relevant to our theme as well. We would like to advertise or sponsor your site for our mutual benefits.

    Please let me know if you are interested, I’ll be happy to hear your thoughts.

    Thanks,
    Tiffany

  100. 100

    You are beautiful… Good site…

  101. 101

    Hey Tina,

    I am so inspired by you – I look forward to recieiving your emails and want to pass my gratitude for your ability to share your life with the world is both unique and beautiful. Good job! xx Liz

  102. 102

    Hi Tina,

    Thank you for the Dan Millman quote on willpower from your twitter feed. It arrived at just the right moment for me.

    Best wishes,

    Tristan

  103. 103

    Hi Tina,

    Enjoyed reading your (and your readers comments)- very uplifting

    Take Care

    Elizabeth

  104. 104

    Hard to believe 4 years have passed since I first discovered your writings…You’ve gotten married with a son now, I see. Well, it appears that living the life you love, and vowing not to work again suits you just fine. I sold my medical practice over a year ago, and never looked back.

  105. 105

    Hi Tina,

    I just stumbled upon your blog today. What an amazingly positive and uplifting spirit you have! And to think that each one of us are equipped with everything we need to fall in love with life as well. We do overcomplicate things and let fear and external expectations stop us dead in our tracks. Thanks for sharing your passion with the rest of us.

    -Breese

  106. 106

    Tina, when are you finally going to write a book or an autobiography? You are such an inspiration to me.

  107. 107

    I just discovered this website through Marie Forleo and I’m so happy that I did – it’s going to give me a few hours of pleasure going through the archives I’m sure!

    Thanks Tina!

  108. 108

    I’m a big fan of this blog! Keep on writing Tina! You inspired me a lot! :)

    Just like Laura, I’m looking forward for you to write a book someday!

  109. A Sleepless night

    109

    I love the way u look at life
    Thank you for sharing your insights
    I just might b able to sleep now…
    After unnecessarily mulling over too much negativity

    Time to love myself more :)

  110. 110

    hi tina,

    your blog is so awesome. i find so many inspirational topics here that i want to spend more time looking into it. thanks for sharing your happiness with us. I admire you for that and I hope I can do the same way!

  111. 111

    Tina, a friend recommended me to visit your blog. I am glad that someone agrees to some of my philosophy. I totally agree that life should be simple but somehow it ends up complicated. Love makes it complicated.

  112. 112

    Hi Tina,

    I was prompted to come over at Barrie Davenport’s post on her Top 25 Blogs.

    It is always great to be in company of like minded people, but you can feel even more cosmically charged when you can feel the energy of that someone on a deeper level. As I was reading this section on you and after browsing your site a bit, I find that you offer something that is so unique. It really appeals to me and I think that your story is one of courage, inspiration and fulfillment. Those are states that I am after as well.

    I hope to connect and learn more from you as I explore your site more. Please do not be turned off by my direct asking question style. I just want to learn and grow just like you.

    Cheers

  113. 113

    “Never work again” seems to translate into doing something you’re passionate about. I admire what you’re doing with this website and how you’re using it to fulfill your passion and live the lifestyle that so many of us dream about.

  114. Thank you so much!

    114

    Hi, Tina!
    Lately I have found some trouble in all of my lives: personal, family, financial, you name it. I was getting so overwhelmed I just said “I’m not doing any of it. Find someone else.” And while that may not be helpful to anyone else, :/ I found that it was very helpful to me. I moved from my luxury apartment to a much smaller one, but I have never felt richer. Thanks to you and a handful of other inspirational people, I have my life back. I cannot thank you enough! :D

  115. 115

    Just discovered your sites thru “WorkAwesome” doing a search for “communication tools” — such a hugely broad topic.
    I’m a beginning blogger and a network marketer with 5Linx – a communications-oriented company – making a living while helping people to communicate better.
    I love your sites and outreaching spirit, and look forward to more of it.

  116. 116

    Just read your article on Problogger on how you got to 2000+ subscribers in 90 days. I find you as my personal inspiration to continue to do what I love. I recently made a website in the personal development field and I like doing it but sometimes it’s hard. Looking at your success is what will keep me going. Thanks again and continue on with those great posts.

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